Beg, Borrow, or Steal

When in Rome #3

by Sarah Adams

Two feuding second-grade teachers (and neighbors) find themselves teaming up in this rivals-to-lovers romance.

Emily Walker hates having her carefully crafted world disrupted by anyone, most of all her legendary nemesis, Jack Bennett. He's the opposite of the wonderful heroes she dreams up in her double life as a romance writer, which is why Emily was perfectly happy when Jack left Rome, Kentucky, mid-school year, with his fiancée. The last thing Emily saw coming was Jack’s return at the start of the summer after calling off the wedding and ending his relationship, but he’s here to stay—as her colleague and her neighbor.

Jackson Bennett is glad to be back, eager to renovate his house and work on the next mystery novel under his bestselling pen name. But when he realizes he’s now neighbors with the one woman who has always pushed his buttons, he discovers something he’s even more excited for—thwarting Emily and her petty plans to sabotage his return.

With their chemistry-fueled animosity at an all-time high, Emily accidentally sends an email to their school’s principal that could reveal her secret literary side hustle. She needs to steal back her manuscript, and Jack—she hates to admit—is just the man to help her. Surprisingly, Jack agrees. Will their unlikely alliance put an end to their rivalry? Or could it lead to a steamy plot twist they never saw coming?

Genres: Audiobook, Enemies To Lovers, Contemporary, Fiction, Contemporary Romance, Adult, Chick Lit

384 pages, Paperback

First published January 7, 2025

Reviews

[shanayaa · Rating 5 out of 5]

➳ 5/5 stars

"₊⊹⁀➴You think you’re unlovable, but I think I’ve never known how to love until knowing you.”

Let me start by saying, Sarah, you absolutely ate with this book! Seriously, this was so good that I found myself reading it painfully slow, like a page or two a day just so I could stretch it out and not finish it too quickly. But at the same time, I was so obsessed with these two characters that I couldn’t stop thinking about them. They were living in my head rent-free!

Everything about this book, and I mean EVERYTHING , was absolutely perfect. Even if I tried to nitpick and find something to complain about, I couldn’t because there was nothing to criticize. The writing, the characters, the story, it all came together in the most magical way.

Sarah, you have my heart for creating this masterpiece . This book wasn’t just a story; it was an experience, and one I’ll hold close for a long time.

➳ ABOUT THE BOOK

This book is the third in the When in Rome series, and let me just say, I have absolutely adored this series so far. All three books hold such a special place in my heart, and I just knew this one would be no different!

The story follows Emily Walker, the eldest of three sisters and the perfectionist of the family, who carries this belief that she’s somehow harder to love. (And yes, I’m looking at all the older sisters out there who think the same thing, stop it right now, because you are not unlovable, and I love you, mwah! 💋)

Enter Jack Bennett—the literal love of my life. He’s the man who makes Emily question her own self-doubts and wonder if she’s really as unlovable as she believes. For Jack, Emily is someone who has always kept him on his toes, someone real and honest, which is something he values deeply. Their story is heartwarming, full of growth, and oh-so-swoony. This book was everything I hoped it would be and more!

➳ ABOUT THE CHARACTERS

╰┈➤ JACK BENNETT

"I thought I would come back and be reminded of all the reasons she and I could never work. Instead, all I’m realizing is just how freaking much I like Emily Walker."

Jack Bennett. Where do I even start with this man? He’s absolutely perfect. If you don’t like him, please go argue with a wall because you are clearly wrong. Jack is not just sweet and considerate; he’s charming, thoughtful, and so ridiculously attentive it makes my heart ache. He noticed every little thing about Emily, like how clenching her fists meant she was holding back tears. And let me tell you, this man didn’t just notice—he cared. He stayed up late just so she wouldn’t feel alone while finishing her studies. WHO DOES THAT? Why does he have to be fictional? God, it’s so unfair 😩

“No. I stayed because I didn’t like the idea of you walking alone to your car after dark. I might’ve hated you, but I also wanted to keep you safe.”

Honestly, Jack has ruined every other fictional man for me. I genuinely didn’t think I could love anyone from this series as much as I loved Will (and trust me, I still do), but Jack? Jack Bennett owns my heart now. He’s on another level. Once, Emily told him she was scared of him getting into an accident while bike racing, and this man— this actual angel —sold his bike just so she wouldn’t have to worry. Like, what? Who even does that anymore?

And did I mention they were enemies at first? The banter between these two was pure chef’s kiss. It added so much spice to their story, and watching their dynamic evolve was just everything.

But Jack isn’t just swoon-worthy; he’s also incredibly caring, respectful, emotionally mature, and just…decent in the best way. He always made sure Emily felt safe and cherished, especially during her moments of self-doubt when she thought she was hard to love or difficult to look at. The way he handled her with so much patience and tenderness had me absolutely melting.

"Because I may be a lot of things, but I never want to be the kind of person who can’t apologize when I’m in the wrong"

Seriously, someone get me a Jack Bennett because men like this shouldn’t be confined to books. 🥴✋🏻

"You are not alone, Emily. I would walk through my worst memories to get to you every single time.”

╰┈➤ EMILY WALKER

"And when my mother found me watching, she told me to find someone someday who will hug me when I’m sad and then help me look on the bright side of things when all I can see is the dark.

I have never—never—felt this seen by a fictional character. Emily is literally me, just fictional (and minus the whole elder sibling thing). She’s someone who’s kind, empathetic, and incredibly nice but can’t seem to accept the same kindness in return because of her whole “I’m too independent to need anyone” attitude. And yet, despite that, she’s one of the sweetest fmcs I’ve ever read. Like, genuinely.

Emily is not only kind and generous but also so mature and responsible. She knows her strength, and she owns it like the absolute queen she is. But behind her hard, independent exterior is a soft, gentle woman who just wants to be loved for who she truly is. She doesn’t want someone to come to her only when they need something, she wants to be cherished, adored, and appreciated for her, for the good, the bad, and everything in between. And honestly, who doesn’t want that?

"No one needs me. And when they don’t need me, they don’t come around anymore either because I am a utility sponge. I am useful. And if I’m no use to someone anymore, they throw me under the sink. I’m never going to be loved! No one wants me! I’m all alone in this life "

MY HEART LITERALLY BROKE FOR HER 💔

Out of so many things the thing that I adored the most about Emily was her love for her siblings. The way she fiercely cared for and protected them made my heart swell. She carried so much on her shoulders without complaint, always putting everyone else first. But at the same time, my heart broke for her. It’s so easy to see her as this unshakable, strong person, but deep down, she’s someone who just wants a hug and someone to tell her she’s enough. And honestly, that’s every eldest sibling ever, isn’t it?

“I’m there for the kids who have their worlds ripped out from under them. Who are hurting so bad they feel like they might not survive another day, but still walk their younger siblings to class to make sure they get there safely.

EMILY, I SEE YOU, AND I LOVE YOU SO MUCH FOR EVERYTHING YOU ARE. YOU’RE STRONG, YOU’RE SOFT, AND YOU’RE ABSOLUTELY UNFORGETTABLE. LET ME TELL YOU, THIS WOMAN DESERVES ALL THE LOVE IN THE WORLD. SOMEONE PROTECT HER AT ALL COSTS!😭🤌🏻

➳ FINAL THOUGHTS

This book was so damn perfect that even a HATER like me couldn’t find a single thing wrong with it. Seriously, I tried, and I got nothing. Although, I will say the pacing annoyed me just a tiny bit. Like, I needed the enemies part to last longer because let’s be honest—who doesn’t live for all the bickering and tension in an enemies-to-lovers? I mean, I’m no different; I eat that stuff up. The banter, the sarcastic remarks, the sparks flying… it’s a whole vibe, and I wasn’t ready to let go of it so quickly.

"Why are you being obstreperous?”
“Because I live to hear what colorful vocabulary you’ll use when I piss you off.”

But honestly? I’m not even mad. With or without an extended enemies phase, this book was everything. The story, the characters, the chemistry, every single piece just clicked so perfectly that I don’t think I’ll ever forget it. It’s one of those rare gems that burrow their way into your heart and refuse to leave. So yeah, pacing aside, this book was a masterpiece. I’ll be carrying it with me forever, no question about it!

“I love you, Emily…I don’t need anything from you other than for you to unlock the door for me so I can come lie with you when the darkness is too heavy to crawl out of. And if you need to fight, you can fight with me. And if you want to make love, make it with me.”

°˖➴ "Overall, if you’re in the mood for a book that’ll light up your face and make you giggle like a teenager crushing on their favorite fictional couple, this one is the perfect catch for you. Trust me, you’re going to have a blast with it!" 💌

➳ QUOTES

⚘ Jack…why are you wearing glasses?”.
“So I can see your jealous scowl more clearly"


⚘ " It’s too loud for me and Ducky to sleep.”
“Who the hell is Ducky?"
“Ducky is my cat.”
“Why do you have a cat?”
“To cook in my soup for dinner tomorrow. She’s my pet! Why else would I have a cat?”

⚘ "Coming back home alone is so much more preferable to always stressing and wondering if I’m going to be enough for someone or if I’m going to say too much, show too much of myself, and scare them away when I’m just getting comfortable."

"There’s not a damn thing wrong with you, Emily,
or the way you have sex. Not a single thing. And when I say I’m upset, I mean that I’m upset you haven’t had the kind of attention you deserve. You don’t owe any man anything—and if he doesn’t know from the first second of talking to you that he’s the luckiest son of a bitch in the world for getting any attention from you at all, he deserves to be run over with a truck.”

⚘ "And I wonder when exactly this happened. When did Jack go from someone I hoped would step on a nail to a man who has warm flesh and blood and a golden heart beating under his cozy knit shirt. A heart I very much care about".

⚘ "I have freedom from perfection with him, and that’s the best gift I’ve ever received from anyone."

THIS QUOTE RIGHT HERE MADE ME SOB SO HARD 💔 😭

⚘ "I can’t get her off my mind. I want to spend every second of the day with her. I want to make up for every day of every year I spent fighting with her instead of loving her. Lately, it’s been seeming like she feels the same way too. I can feel it in her touch. I can see it in her smile. Hear it in the way she says my name"

⚘ "Take it out on me. All your anger. All your humiliation. Take it out on me because I can stand it. But I’ll be damned before I let you wreck something that you’ve worked so hard for. Something that you deserve. Something you love.”

⚘ "Life can be a little shit sometimes. But shit also makes great fertilizer, Grow from your experiences, don’t let them smother the light out of you.”

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୨ৎ pre-read:
⤿ started - january 14, 2025

got my hands on this beauty and im so freaking excited to read it with my beautiful girl tanu 💌

[Sara Carrolli · Rating 4 out of 5]

My fav in the series!!!! Again, ur honor I love them.

It had lots of banter + a great mix of silly, emotional, vulnerable & flirty scenes ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

(The motorcycle scenes were my favorite 🏍️)

[maria · Rating 5 out of 5]

જ⁀➴ 5 ✰

⋆𐙚₊˚⊹“You are not alone, Emily. I would walk through my worst memories to get to you every single time.”⋆𐙚₊˚⊹

✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:* ✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:* ✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*

Beg, borrow or steal follows two rival teachers, Emily and Jack, who can’t stand each other. Emily is organized and secretly writes romance novels, while Jack, her annoying neighbor, is back in town after breaking off his engagement.

When Emily accidentally sends an email that could reveal her secret writing career, she needs Jack’s help to fix it. Even though they don’t get along, they team up. But as they work together, their rivalry starts to turn into something more, leading to an unexpected romance.


➳ my thoughts:

Rome, Kentucky is my home🤍

I fear my review and whatever I say is not going to make this book justice.😩

Sarah has a way with her writing that it just amazing. She has this incredible ability to craft stories that effortlessly transport you to the heart of the setting, making every scene vivid and alive in your mind. Her words have a way of pulling you in, wrapping you up in the world she creates, and making you feel deeply connected to the characters and their journeys. I could never grow tired of reading her works; every page holds something new and enchanting, and she never ceases to amaze me. I hope she always has a pillow that's cool on both sides and an endless flow of inspiration to continue blessing us with her stories. She’s one of my favorite authors and I have been reading her work for 3 years and can actually see the improvement in her writing.

This book was so much more than just a romance. It delves deep into personal growth, the journey of finding your own path, and the importance of learning to accept yourself, flaws and all. What stood out the most was how it emphasized that it’s okay to ask for help, that seeking support doesn’t make you weak but rather shows strength and courage. It beautifully explores the complexity of our personalities, the struggles we face in embracing who we are, and how leaning on others can be a vital part of that journey. The way it balanced the emotional depth of self-acceptance and vulnerability with the warmth of romance made it such a profoundly rewarding read.
It’s the kind of book that not only tugs at your heart but also makes you reflect on your own life and growth.

⋆˚⊹ “Maybe not everything will end in hurt. But we’ll never know if we don’t try.” ⋆˚⊹

This was one of my most anticipated reads of 2025, and it still feels surreal that I’ve actually read it now 😭
If you saw my updates, you probably already knew this was heading straight for a 5-star rating. Honestly, I didn’t think I could love any of her books as much as Practice Makes Perfect, and I had some serious doubts about Emily going in, especially since I wasn’t her biggest fan in the previous books. But wow, this completely blew me away and exceeded every single one of my expectations.

Every page was packed with witty banter, raw emotional struggles, and so much love. It was the perfect balance of heartache and joy, the kind of book that makes you feel everything so deeply. At this point, Sarah could publish her grocery list, and I’d read it like it’s a masterpiece.

I hate this book because it made me painfully aware that no one is ever going to love me like Jack loves Emily. I hate it because now all I want is to pack my bags, move to a small town, and live my dream romance but here I am, stuck in nyc. I hate it because it gave me all the feelings, and I’m still reeling from it.
I can't stop thinking about it, and I need everyone to read it. If this book isn’t already on your TBR, you need to add it immediately. Seriously, do it. You can thank me later.🤭

⋆˚⊹”I’ve always struggled with connection. So it was nice to get it in books if not anywhere else.”⋆˚⊹

Now, this book can totally be read as a standalone but I’m going to be honest, half of my excitement was because of the scenes with the characters of the previous books, so I would suggest if you haven’t read the first 2 books please do before reading this one. I promise you it’s going to make the experience more enjoyable.

🌶️another thing is that Sarah is known for her closed door romance, she decided to leave the door a little open this time and imo it helped with the relationship but if you still want to read a closed door book then just need to skip the chapters 25 and 32.


➳ characters:


ೃ࿐ Emily walker🫧

⭑.ᐟ“I did that all on my own because I don’t like to get too close to people. I always have this feeling like something will go wrong if I do—so it’s been easier to keep to myself.”

If you are the oldest daughter you’ll probably relate a lot to Emily, even though I’m the youngest in my family I still felt her struggles as my own because of the way they are portrayed.

Being the oldest daughter is a often complex role, and for Emily, it’s no different. She has the weight of expectations settled on her shoulders. After her parents passed away her younger siblings looked up to her, a responsibility that came with a quiet, unspoken pressure to excel in everything she did, whether it was academics, behavior, or even managing her own emotions. As the eldest, Emily quickly became the symbol of responsibility in her family, someone everyone relied on without a second thought. But that reliance often felt isolating, as the expectations placed on her made it difficult to find room for her own needs and desires.

She’s terrified of giving love a chance and opening her heart. Deep down, she feels like no one truly loves her hat people only tolerate her because of her personality. She is a control freak, scared of change and clinging to the familiar out of fear. My heart ached for her because it was so clear that she was trapped in her own darkness, carrying that weight all by herself. I just wanted to reach through the pages and give her the biggest hug🥺

: ̗̀➛ “I don’t like change. And I’m terrified of relationships. But I find myself contemplating both of those things for him.”

: ̗̀➛ ”I don’t know how to tell him that this pain is always hovering just below the surface these days. It’s not alcohol induced. It’s raw and it’s lurking and I’m not nearly as capable of handling my shit as I seem.”


ೃ࿐ Jack Bennett🫧

⭑.ᐟ“I’ve kept myself hidden too much. It’s a harrowing feeling to look around and realize you don’t have a single friend to turn to in a hard time”

Jack Jack Jack, where do I even begin with him? He is perfect, I’m not joking, I need him right nowww. Let me paint you the picture, he’s brunette, WEARS GLASSES😚💓🤭😏😝😻, ride a motorcycle, has cute tattoos on his arm, always have a beaded necklace because his students gave it to him as a gift AND he is good with his words and actions.

When I started the book I was like “there’s no way someone is going to top the love of my life Will Griffin” well…. Jack is running pretty close for the spot. He’s such a sweetheart. He cares so much for everyone around him.
He had me down bad.

He grew up with a narcissistic father, which left him with people-pleasing tendencies and he just want to charms and win over everyone. But what really stood out to me was how those challenges didn’t stop him from becoming a genuinely good person. Watching him navigate those traits, striving to grow beyond his upbringing, was both inspiring and moving. The fact that he was so determined to break the cycle and be nothing like his father speaks volumes about his strength of character and resilience. It’s a reminder that our past and our upbringing doesn’t have to define us, we can choose who we want to be.

: ̗̀➛ “Because I may be a lot of things, but I never want to be the kind of person who can’t apologize when I’m in the wrong.

SELF AWARE KING🗣️🗣️ LETS GOOO



˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥˚✿ °. Emily & Jack:
⤷ two lonely people falling in loveᡣ𐭩

THEIR BANTER. Oh my god, I was absolutely obsessed with it. It was funny, but not in an immature or over-the-top way it felt natural, sharp, and full of personality. Even while they were bickering, the chemistry between them was undeniable, crackling on every page. They had me giggling like a fool at 4 a.m., and if I wasn’t crying over the emotional moments, I was laughing because of their dynamic. It was the perfect blend of humor and tension, and I couldn’t get enough of it!

⋆˚⊹“You think you’re unlovable, but I think I’ve never known how to love until knowing you.”⋆˚⊹

⤷ ROMANCE IS BACK!!!!!!🥹💝

I really appreciated how the book’s timeline was set during the summer, even though they’re both professors at the same school. It allowed us to see them as individuals, outside the constraints of their professional roles. Without the pressure of academia and the expectations that come with being colleagues, their true personalities had room to shine. It felt more intimate and authentic, like we were getting to know the real versions of them instead of the personas they wear at work. That setting made their connection feel so much more genuine and relatable.

⋆˚⊹“I don’t think I’ve ever really felt loved until her”⋆˚⊹

One way to explain their relationship would be this picture:




Oh to be loved like Jack loves Emily🥹

Guys, I seriously love them together. They’re such an incredible couple, so perfectly matched in every way. The fact that they’ve known each other for over a decade adds depth to their relationship. I loved their “nemesis” vibes, the playful tension, the snarky comments but underneath it all, there was always this undeniable attraction simmering between them, even if neither of them could fully understand or admit it at first. Watching that dynamic slowly unravel into something deeper was everything I could’ve hoped for. They just get each other in a way that feels so natural. my favorite thing about their relationship was how they understood and supported each other.🫶🏻

⋆˚⊹“But with Jack, I’m starting to realize, everything just feels right.”⋆˚⊹

✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:* ✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:* ✧･ﾟ:


➳ side characters:

𐙚 Will & Annie: I actually think I could give my life for them, I love them so much and they mean everything to me. I adored seeing more of them and all the progress in their relationship. My #1forever🥹🥹 their crumbs were the best.

𐙚 Madison & James: GIVE ME THEIR BOOK RIGHT NOWWWWW!!!💳💳💳 I seriously need it, have been curious about them since I read practice makes perfect and their small interaction in this book just made me more excited.

𐙚 Noah & Amelia: they are my least fav couple of the whole series but with every book that gets out I’m liking them more and kind of getting the hype about them.


♬⋆.˚ jack & emily mini playlistᰔ

⤷ let it happen ⟡ gracie abrams { emily’s song }
⤷ why don’t we go there ⟡ one direction
⤷ lonely hearts ⟡ 5sos
⤷ mutual ⟡ shawn mendes
⤷ this is me trying ⟡ taylor swift
⤷ tired ⟡ beabadoobee


💌 tropes:

ꨄ︎ rivals to lovers
ꨄ︎ neighbors
ꨄ︎ small town
ꨄ︎ both are teachers
ꨄ︎ he falls first
ꨄ︎ found family


-‘๑’- my favorite quotes & scenes
possible spoilers mentioned

・❥・ “You make me feel wild, Emily. I’ve never cared about anyone like I care for you.”

・❥・“Loving you is the easiest thing I’ve ever done.”

・❥・“I don’t need anything from you other than for you to unlock the door for me so I can come lie with you when the darkness is too heavy to crawl out of. And if you need to fight, you can fight with me.”

・❥・“People I love die. Or they hide things from me and leave. Or they simply outgrow me and move on. The one constant in my life has been me, at the end of the day, alone in my bedroom. And if I let myself love Jack fully with arms outstretched wide and he leaves me, it will break me.”

・❥・“I want to hug each other when we’re sad and help each other find the bright side of things when all we can see is the dark.”

・❥・“Tell me you’re okay. I need to hear you say it.”

・❥・ Jack softly wraps his hands around my wrists, cradling them. “I’m listening, Emily. What do you need?”
“I need you to fix it.”
“Name it. I’ll do it for you.” He sounds like he means it.

・❥・“It’s okay that time is moving and changing. Maybe it’s okay if I move and change too.”

・❥・ He sees all the truth swimming in my veins. Regret. Pain. Loneliness. Helplessness. “Whatever it is, you’re going to be okay. I promise. I’ll make sure of it.”

・❥・“It’s going to be okay. I’m always the one promising that sentiment. I happily take on the responsibility of everyone’s burdens because I only ever feel good when I’m being useful to someone. But hearing those words whispered softly to me . . . it’s heaven.”

・❥・“It’s none of your business. My decisions are my own.”
“Dammit, Emily, they don’t have to be, though! Just talk to me. Tell me exactly what hurts. Let me be here for you,” I say, my voice pleading now.


thank you so much netgalley and dell publishing for the arc

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ᝰ💐 pre-read: ᯓᡣ𐭩୭˚.

OMG I JUST GOT THE ARC😭💗🤭🏃🏻‍♀️‍➡️ LIFE IS WORTH LIVING!!!!!!

I’m so excited to read this, hope it doesn’t disappoint🤞🏻 absolutely adored practice makes perfect now I have high expectations for this one.
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The things I would do for an arc of this book😭😭😭

[anh · Rating 3 out of 5]

3.5 stars

In this rivals-to-lovers romance, Emily Walker and Jack Bennett are second-grade teachers who can’t stand each other—and to make things more complicated, they’re neighbours. Emily’s world is shaken when Jack returns to town after breaking off his engagement, and now he’s not only her neighbour again but also her colleague. As they clash over everything, things take an unexpected turn when Emily accidentally sends an email to the principal that could reveal her secret career as a romance writer. Needing help to retrieve her manuscript, she reluctantly turns to Jack, and as they team up, their rivalry quickly turns into something much more heated.

➸ I did find this book enjoyable, but honestly, it felt pretty mid—nothing too groundbreaking. I’m a little embarrassed because my expectations were pretty high going in. I gave the first two books in this series great ratings a year ago, so I assumed I’d love this one too. But after reading it, I realised my taste has changed quite a bit since then. I honestly can’t even remember the characters from the first two books. 💀 That being said, Sarah Adams’ writing is still nice and enjoyable. It’s lighthearted, sweet, and makes for a breezy read, but it didn’t leave a lasting impression or feel all that memorable. She’s great for a fun, easy read, but sadly, that’s about it for me right now.

It was very bingeable, though—I ended up reading most of it in one sitting. But by the time I reached the last 30%, I kind of zoned out and had to push through to finish. It just didn’t have that wow factor to keep me fully engaged all the way through.

When it comes to the characters, Emily as the oldest sibling constantly feels the weight of responsibility constantly on her shoulders, and it often leaves her feeling disconnected from others. She’s the one everyone turns to, always putting their needs before her own, which leaves her with little time or energy to focus on herself. This has made it difficult for her to open up, especially when it comes to love. Deep down, she’s afraid to get too close to anyone, worried that no one will truly love her for who she is beneath her "perfect" exterior. Instead, she feels like people only put up with her because of the role she plays, making it even harder for her to be vulnerable and authentic.

Jack, on the other hand, was shaped by a narcissistic father, which left him with a deep need to seek approval and always try to please others. At first, it seems like he’s always trying to win people over with charm, but what stood out to me is that he doesn’t let this need for validation control him entirely. Despite the emotional baggage from his upbringing, Jack is actively working to overcome it, striving to become a better version of himself.

As much as I appreciate Sarah Adams trying to make these struggles feel real and relatable, I couldn’t help but feel like it was a bit underdeveloped. Things wrapped up too quickly, and while I get that this is meant to be a lighthearted romance, I just needed more depth. It didn’t deliver for me on that front. I should’ve lowered my expectations based on my previous ratings from a year ago because my tastes have shifted, and I need a bit more from a book these days. But that’s just a personal thing.

The romance was cute and fun—nothing that really blew me away, but it definitely did the job. I enjoyed the playful banter between Emily and Jack. It was lighthearted and funny, which made their interactions enjoyable to read. While the chemistry between them wasn’t exactly electric, I found myself rooting for them as a couple, especially as their rivalry turned into something more. The slow burn and their moments of vulnerability added a nice layer to their dynamic, even if it wasn’t anything too extraordinary. Ultimately, it wasn’t the most memorable romance, but it was sweet and definitely kept me engaged enough to want them to get their happy ending.

Overall, I would still recommend this book. It’s heartwarming, light, and sweet, with that cozy small-town charm. It’s a perfect pick if you’re looking for something easy and fun to read, but just don’t go in expecting a ton of depth.

Thank you to NetGalley and Hachette Australia & New Zealand for the ARC.

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The release date is approaching so I'm finally picking this up! I'm so excited 🤭
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I JUST GOT APPROVED FOR THE ARC 😭 🥳 🤸🏼 🤭

[ellen · Rating 5 out of 5]

YUUUUUUUUUP

[♥︎ Heather ⚔(Semi-Hiatus)]

Deleted my review, cleared my rating. Going to give this one another try. Doing it on kindle this time instead of audio.

Battle of the Bookstores inspired me to try one more time...


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[Clace · Rating 4 out of 5]

Petition for Buket to start her own booktube channel cuz her recs are fire 🔥
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Starting Buket month and I am soo excited 🤸‍♂️ I loved practice makes perfect so high hopes for this!

[April (catching up) · Rating 4 out of 5]

4.5 Stars ★

“You think you’re unlovable, but I think I’ve never known how to love until knowing you.”


This was so cute and gave me the perfect amount of comfort that I was looking for!

Beg, Borrow, or Steal is the third installment in the When in Rome series. This easily became my favorite so far with the rivalry at every turn to the friendship and onward to lovers. This is not just a book filled with witty banter, tension, and romance. It delves into heavier topics of grief, depression, and narcissistic parent into a journey of healing. This had me giggling, kicking my feet and feeling downright sad during some moments but loving it all the same.

The story follows Emily and Jack, who have been each other's nemesis since college. A decade later, teaching at the same school they compete with each other over everything until Jack moves away. Suddenly, he is back in town after breaking off his engagement and is now Emily's new neighbor. She tries everything to get him out of town until she needs his help after sending an email mistakingly.


Emily Walker was one of those characters that I loved many qualities about her and some that I didn't like. I didn't love her but also I didn't hate her, actually I like her a lot. Let's start with what I adore about her. She is strong-willed and often speaks her mind, I can relate to speaking her mind because I often do as well. She is protective of those she loves, especially her siblings being the oldest daughter and having lost her parents at a young age, it is understandable. Another quality is that she is a perfectionist, which I can also relate to, though not on the same level. There are some things that I am and some that I'm not. The things that I just couldn't get with is her constant need to give everyone else advice but not take it for herself until towards the end. Don't get me wrong, I loved that it took her time to grow. I just felt like it was two steps forward and then three back. But when she finally took advice from her sister and set her fears aside to show and feel her emotions, I was rooting her her.

"As all good and unbearable perfectionists know, if you want something done right, you mostly have to do it yourself."


Jack Bennet is just a green flag all around. You guys he wears glasses, has tattoos, and rides a motorcycle talk about making me melt for him. Growing up with a narcissistic father, he strived to never be that way, going out of his way to read people, turning on his charm to win them over. I didn't find it a fault it was a way for him to cope with his upbringing and not to be like or treat people the way he saw his father do his whole life. It made him more caring and attentive to what others needed. In this, he was able to see exactly what Emily needed, being abel to care for her the way she needed. And if this didn't make me love him, then the way that he is posessive in the best of ways did. He was just perfect to me in every way.

“Because I may be a lot of things, but I never want to be the kind of person who can’t apologize when I’m in the wrong. I grew up around someone who was a real dick and never said he was sorry… so, I don’t know, I just don’t want to repeat his pattern. And I was firmly in the wrong today. So again, I’m very sorry.”


Emily and Jack went from rivals at every turn to a slow budding friendship, building layers and into a relationship of understating one another and taking things at a slow pace. I absolutely loved the tension, banter, and chemistry between them on their paths of each phase. I absolutely loved their email and text exchanges. They had me cracking up, even laughing out loud with their bickering. Though it took her a whole to fully trust him as she had been hurt in the past and had feared loving someone again. He had some things to work through as well. Being able to overcome his upbringing and treat her with the care that she needed to feel loved. I loved the way that they didn't tip toe around the others' traumas but communicated through them to grow not only as individuals but together. They were honestly so cute together.

“Maybe not everything will end in hurt. But we’ll never know if we don’t try.”


The way that I was also eating up the scenes with the characters from the previous books. I loved being back in this small town with them. I didn't know how much I missed Noah, Amelia, Annie, Will, Madison, James, and even Mabel until I was back in Rome.

This book fulfilled everything that I was looking for and needing. Though I had some issues with Emily, that may ne a me problem. I still loved it. I can't wait to be in this town with Madison and James. I will be seeing you soon, Rome, Kentucky.


Favorite quotes and moments

"And when she found me watching, she told me to find someone someday who will hug me when I’m sad and then help me look on the bright side of things when all I can see is the dark."

"No one needs me. And when they don’t need me, they don’t come around anymore either because I am a utility sponge. I am useful. And if I’m no use to someone anymore, they throw me under the sink."

“You’ve seen a woman’s body. Mine is no different.” He pauses, a thick crease forming between his brows. “Emily, you are the difference."

"Coming back home alone is so much more preferable to always stressing and wondering if I’m going to be enough for someone or if I’m going to say too much, show too much of myself, and scare them away when I’m just getting comfortable."

“You are not alone, Emily. I would walk through my worst memories to get to you every single time.”

“Life can be a little shit sometimes. But shit also makes great fertilizer. Grow from your experiences, don’t let them smother the light out of you.”

“Maybe not everything will end in hurt. But we’ll never know if we don’t try.”

“And to think you consider yourself hard to love.” I kiss her temple. “Loving you is the easiest thing I’ve ever done.”

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In need of something on the lighter side. Also, I'm ready to be back in Rome, Kentucky with this rivals to lovers romance 💐💕

[Paige (semi-hiatus) · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is the perfect lighthearted rom-com! Sarah delivered everything I wanted and more. I was truly taken aback by how much I connected to this story. This is the third instalment in the When in Rome series. It is an interconnected series but this CAN be read as a standalone.

╰┈➤ Tropes:

🍓 Academic/workplace rivals to lovers
🍓 Neighbours
🍓 Forced proximity
🍓 Small town

Jack and Emma have been rivals since their first unfortunate encounter back in college. They are both competitive in nature and their passion pushes them to challenge themselves both academically and in their careers. As fate would have it, they end up teaching at the same school for years until Jack moves away. Following a failed relationship, Jack returns back to town due to an invisible string drawing him towards Emily. As tensions increase, secret truths are revealed and it turns out, they are rivals in more ways than one — they are both writers.

The chemistry and tension between Jack and Emily was undeniable. I was squealing out loud reading this because this is the stuff you only see in early 2000's romance movies. I had to physically stop myself from reading several times because I couldn't contain myself. Some of their moments felt like those movie scenes where the guy finally kisses the girl in the rain.I loved their dynamic. Never underestimate the power of good banter and rivalry!!

Jack was the sweetest human being and he was so easy to fall in love with. You can tell he was written by a woman with the utter compassion, tenderness and thoughtfulness he carried himself with. If you're an older sister, you'll understand Emily and struggles putting herself first before her family. I loved the moments she shared with her sisters and brother. Both Jack and Emily were very relatable characters and I felt represented by their struggles.

I loved that they were both writers in their respective genres — this aspect was reminiscent of one of my favourite romances, Beach Read.

I don't often rate rom-coms 5 stars because I always crave a deeper layer to storytelling. This touched on some emotional topics but still kept things lighthearted and fun. These topics were well balanced with the swoonworthy romance.

This is some of Sarah's best writing, she had me hooked from start to finish. To top it off, there was no silly conflicts. It is refreshing to read GROWN characters that know how to COMMUNICATE, even when they have disagreements.

For those worried about this being second chance, I wouldn't call this a second chance romance. I personally love the trope but this is more rivals to lovers. They have known each other for a long time and had previous partners during the time they knew each other but nothing romantic happened between them previously.

If you prefer closed book romances, there's two chapters of spice which the author has marked at the beginning of the book. It was done perfectly and was very tasteful for this adorable story.

No notes, give me more of this please!!

Thank you Headline & NetGalley for sending me an advanced reader copy in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.

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Quotes

“I will continue to support your writing. To pull for you. To root for you and do everything I can to help make your dreams come true.”

“You are not alone, Emily. I would walk through my worst memories to get to you every single time.”

“And to think you consider yourself hard to love. Loving you is the easiest thing I've ever done.”

“I don't need anything from you other than for you to unlock the door for me so I can come lie with you when the darkness is too heavy to crawl out of. And if you need to fight, you can fight with me. And if you want to make love, make it with me.”

“But these days, I’m happily single by choice. (There’s also a chance that I’m single because I’m an unlovable porcupine and got tired of the constant rejection . . . but that thought is terrifying, so I slip it inside my Metal Treasure Chest of Doom and leave it there right next to the memory of my first and only love shattering my heart.)”

[manju ♡]

finally got my copy hehehe 😈

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what do you mean second chance please no 😭😭😭

[Rowan · Rating 5 out of 5]

I am physically sick—sick with how much I love this book. I can’t even explain the intensity of it without feeling like my heart is going to explode. I want to scream from the rooftops, but also curl up into a ball because, oh my god, this book wrecked me in the best way possible. No one, and I mean no one, on this entire planet will ever understand how deeply I get to these two characters—Emily and Jack—like I do. I can’t even articulate the connection I felt with them without feeling like it’s deeply personal, something I don’t want to share. But trust me, when I say that they belong to me, I’m not exaggerating. I’ve never had a book affect me like this. I literally highlighted every single page. And if you’ve ever wondered what it feels like to fall in love with a book so hard that it feels like you’ve lived it? This is that book. I can’t wait to get my physical copy so I can move my annotations to it 😭 so I’m warning you bc this review is very long and very passionate.
now play “off the table” by Ariana grande 🎧

“Why are you being obstreperous?”
“Because I live to hear what colorful vocabulary you’ll use when I piss you off.”

I went into it with absolutely zero expectations. In fact, I thought I was picking up another one of those "cheesy romance novels" that wouldn’t stand out. Well, surprise—this book shattered all those expectations and completely blew my mind. It’s my first Sarah Adams book, but it will definitely not be my last. Now, I’m practically counting down the days until I can devour the stories of the other characters in this series—especially Noah and Annie, and of course, Madeline (who better get a book of her own because she deserves it). After reading this, I’m officially hooked. And oh, by the way, this book has now earned a permanent spot in my top 10 all-time favorite romance reads. I can’t believe it’s my last read of the year, but it’s honestly the perfect way to end 2024🥹

“Jack . . . why are you wearing glasses?”
“So I can see your jealous scowl more clearly.”

➸ the story follows Emily and Jake, two teachers who’ve been locked in a fierce rivalry for years. I’m talking about a rivalry that spans everything from where they sit, to where they park, to how they write. It’s literally everything. And the tension only grows when Jake returns from Alaska and suddenly becomes Emily’s next-door neighbor—after abruptly ending his engagement. Talk about a perfect storm. But as the story unfolds, it’s clear that beneath all that rivalry and antagonism, there’s a connection that neither of them can deny hehe I was giggling.

“How I think you’re the strongest woman I know, but I also really admire the soft places you hide away. That you’re scared of. I’d tell you I want you to let go and let me take care of you like this. That you’re safe with me.”

➷ let’s start with Emily Walker: I don’t know how Sarah Adams managed to create a character so relatable I felt so seen it scared me 😭 Emily is the oldest sibling, but I, as the youngest, still related to her on a level I can't even describe. There’s this fierce, almost defensive side to her—a constant need to shield herself from vulnerability. She hides her emotions, never letting anyone see her cry or break down. But in doing so, she’s fiercely protective of the ones she loves. And her humor? Her sharp, prickling, sometimes "mean" love language? It SPOKE TO ME. I was literally laughing out loud at some of her lines, She’s complicated and raw, and I just wanted to wrap her up in a hug and tell her everything would be okay. The way she pushes people away because she’s scared of losing them, the fear that she’s never going to be enough, the constant need for control—ugh, I felt it all. Emily is such a beautifully imperfect character, and her journey of self-discovery, love, and healing had me SO invested. I also related to the control part, irl I freak out that I need to do everything my own way or it’s gonna be wrong. Her relationship with men was so relatable, she’s so detached from them because she don’t let people in, and she want to be loved a certain and I was like ?? - “is this fucking play about us?” - I love Emily like i I loved no one.

“I love you too, Emily . . . I don’t need anything from you other than for you to unlock the door for me so I can come lie with you when the darkness is too heavy to crawl out of. And if you need to fight, you can fight with me. And if you want to make love, make it with me.”

➷ Jack Bennett: Now, let’s talk about Jake…because mister Bennett is the definition of perfection. It physically hurts me to even think about how perfect he is. First off, the man has style. I don’t know what it is about men with good style, but immediate heart eyes. His soul is so tender, so caring. And did I mention that he reads romance novels?! This guy is a literal dream. He reads romance novels for the emotional depth and the found-family trope, and when Emily shared one of her books with him? He sat up all night reading it—not once, but twice. He then printed it out and took it to heart. He even used his connections to help her. This is the kind of man I need in my life, and if he doesn't exist, I am officially giving up on men.

“Can I say something?” I ask, taking Jack’s hand.
“I love when you say things”

Jack’s love language? EVERYTHING. Words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service—he does it all. There’s a scene where he’s so in tune with Emily that he can sense her fear of losing people. And when she once said that his bike was dangerous, this sweet, perfect man sells it, just to keep her from worrying. Like, what? He’s just... TOO MUCH in the best way possible. The way he cares for his mom, but also calls out his dad’s faults? The way he admits that he craves honesty, even if it’s brutal? The way he defends Emily when she’s hurt, both emotionally and professionally? I could go on and on, but honestly, I just want to shout from the rooftops that Jack Bennett is the man of my dreams. May this type of love find me. Pls help me manifest in the comments.

And that line he says, - "Take it out on me. All your anger. All your humiliation. Take it out on me because I can stand it..." - ?? Please, I nearly died. How is he so perfect?

“It’s not that I care for some aspects of you, not that I care for you when you’re in a good mood . . . I care for you always. I want you, always. The good, the bad, and the in- between. I. Want. You. Sharp edges, hot tempered, fiercely protective, gooey heart . . . all of it. All of you. But I’m not going to rush you”

➸ and them together? Okay, let’s talk about their romance. It’s so real, so raw, that it’s hard to even describe. Emily and Jack’s journey from enemies to lovers felt so natural and so earned. I’ve been so jaded by how overdone this trope has become, but these two? Their dynamic is pure perfection. Their rivalry wasn’t some forced thing—it was real, and you could feel the tension between them, the unresolved feelings, the desire they both tried to suppress. Watching them go from sparring partners to something more? it was Everything to me. The pacing of their relationship, the way they slowly let down their walls, the way they both yearned for something deeper—it hit me like a gut punch. The way Jack understood Emily, knew her so deeply, even without words, it was just...soul-shattering.💞

“You are not alone, Emily. I would walk through my worst memories to get to you every single time.”

➸ And can I just say that the way Sarah Adams built up the yearning between these two? I felt every ache, every longing. It was all so satisfying, so intense, that it felt like a piece of my heart was being slowly stitched together as I turned each page. When Jack says, "I won’t needlessly be the cause of any more grief in your life," I wanted to just break down. Their love was healing. Their connection was pure. I was healed by their love, and that’s not something I can say very often about books anymore.

“will hug me when I’m sad and then help me look on the bright side of things when all I can see is the dark”

Their relationship was one of those that’s hard to put into words, no matter how hard I try. I saw so much of myself in Emily, and then bits of myself in Jack too. Despite the complexities of life, I’ve always said that if I fall in love, I want it to be a love that’s gentle, pure, and healing. And with these two, I saw that. It was a love that left me feeling something I can’t quite explain—like I was healed just by witnessing it. This was a love story that deserves to be told.

“You think you're unlovable, but I think l've never known how to love until knowing you.”

my favorite quote in the entire book

➸ final thoughts : I also loved how Emily’s siblings were woven into the story. It was so fun to see their personalities shine through, and I’m already planning to read their books too because I *need* to know their stories now. (Noah & Amelia, and Will & Annie—please, so stinking cute!) And apparently, the next book is about James and Madeline? I’m already in love with the idea, so Sarah, please give us their book, okay? - The only tiny thing I didn’t like was Annie proposing to Will—it just felt a little... embarrassing 😭, but that’s such a minor issue compared to how much I loved everything else.

If you are looking for a book that will make you feel everything—if you want a story with characters that will stay with you long after the last page is turned—this is the book for you. Emily and Jack are everything I’ve ever wanted in a couple, and Sarah Adams has created a love story that feels as deep and real as anything I’ve ever read. I can’t recommend this book enough. Please, do yourself a favor and pick it up.




➵ ARC provided by the publisher—Random House Publishing Group/Ballantine—for an honest review.

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[Cara · Rating 5 out of 5]

OH MY HOPELESS ROMANTIC CHEESY HEART!!!!!!! Beg, Borrow, or Steal is the third book in the When In Rome series written by Sarah Adams and by far my FAVORITE book in this series. I couldn't have chosen a better book to start 2025 off with and let me tell you, I just kicked off this year with a banger. This book was deeply personal and relatable for me, as an older sister but also as a middle child, this book spoke to me on so many levels. Sarah Adams has a way with words that just leave you in a choke hold, but also leaves you feeling giddy. Beg, Borrow, or Steal is the type of book that tugs on your heart strings, but it also makes you go back into your personal story and reflect on your own life experiences. I'm honestly scared to post this review because my words and review will NEVER give this book the justice it deserves. This book was one of my many anticipated books of 2025 and if I could go back and give this book an infinity star rating, I totally would because it was that flawless and beautifully written. I know this book was supposed to be a cutesy romance, but honestly it was so much more than that for me. As I was reading this book, it felt like Sarah was right by my side holding my hand, telling me to be vulnerable, telling me it's okay to be myself, and telling me and her readers that it's okay to ask for help when it's needed. Being vulnerable is not a weak trait, it shows you have a big heart. I can't recommend this book enough, please please do yourself a favor and grab a copy immediately, because this book was absolutely a favorite for me.

THANK YOU TO NETGALLEY AND RANDOM HOUSE PUBLISHING GROUP-BALLANTINE FOR AN ARC OF THIS BOOK IN EXCHANGE FOR AN HONEST REVIEW!!!!!!!

Rome, Kentucky is my home, it's my safe place, and it's my favorite community.

"No one needs me. And when they don't need me, they don't come around anymore either because I am a utility sponge. I am useful. And if I'm no use to someone anymore, they throw me under the sink".

"I want to hug each other when we are sad and help each other find the bright side of things when all we can see is the dark".

"The best thing to hold onto in life is each other". -Audrey Hepburn

"Jack Daniel's just isn't the same without a splash of sweet tea".

"Maybe not everything will end in hurt, but we will never know if we don't try".

Emily Walker is Rome, Kentucky's Queen Bee. Emily tends to speak her mind and have it bite her in the ass too often. Emily has been teaching second grade at Rome Elementary School of over twenty-five years and absolutely loves her job. Emily is happily single because she thinks she's an unlovable porcupine that got tired of the constant rejection. After her grandma passed away, Emily became a romance author as a side hustle because she couldn't deal with the depression and the darkest days of her life when she feared her siblings didn't need her anymore because they were all dealing with their own grief. Did I mention that Emily has a cat named Ducky? Oh my goodness, I just want to hold Ducky so close to my heart and get in some kitty snuggles, because that was just so adorable. Emily is the type of woman who seems to single handedly carry the world on her shoulders way better than Superman ever could dream of doing. Emily is also tenacious, strong willed, and protective of those around her. It was so precious to reconnect with Annie and Amelia for their annual girl's night, Noah and Will were also reunited, I was just the happiest woman ever to be reunited with these characters.

Jackson Bennett is Emily's archnemesis since college when they first met and Jack spilled coffee all over Emily and then proceeded to flirt with her. Just before winter break, Jack moved to Nebraska with his fiancee, they were supposed to get married but not anymore, so Jack decides to come back to Rome, Kentucky because he felt like it was his calling and he definitely owed it to Emily. Jack is also a second grade teacher at Rome Elementary. Jackson Bennett, this man is so freaking hot, he has several tattoos, but they are all cute sticker style designed tattoos such as an adorable worm with glasses popping out of an apple. As a side hustle, Jack goes by the pen-name, AJ Ranger, a New York Times and Sunday Times best selling mystery author. The e-mails between Jack and Emily were absolutely hilarious, their banter was just the best, I couldn't stop kicking my feet in the air and giggling. Jack had a nickname for Emily and it was Goldie, ugh, it was just so stinkin cute and I couldn't stop swooning over this man. Let me be honest, at first I thought I would hate Jack by the way he was acting, but oh my gosh, this man was so hot and made me swoon like crazy.

In Beg, Borrow, or Steal we meet Madison who is another one of Emily's sisters. Madison and Emily are thirteen months apart in age, so they were the closest and the very best of friends, but Madison is getting her culinary degree in New York City, but anyway I just need the next book to be Madison and James who you will also meet in this book, so be prepared to swoon all over again. One night, Emily drunkenly sent her very explicit romance novel to the principal of Rome Elementary instead of to a publisher, Jack and Emily decide to put their differences aside and work together so the principal can't read Emily's story because of Lord that would just be embarrassing. I absolutely loved and adored watching Emily and Jack work together, they were just the cutest ever. By the end of this book, I was insanely proud of Emily for coming out of her shell and asking for help when she was too scared to do something on her own. It also felt like after this book was over, Emily was right there in my corner holding my hand and telling me to be myself and accept myself for who I am. Beg, Borrow, or Steal will forever hold a personal place in my heart for years and years to come, possibly forever. I can't express all of my love I have for this beautiful, yet heart tugging book. Jackson Bennett and Emily Walker will be my very best of friends for a long time to come.

[Lilyya ♡ · Rating 3 out of 5]

2.75 stars

I approached this book with high expectations, especially after the exhilarating experience of the second installment in the series. the dynamic between the academic rivals, who transitioned from their college years to teaching at the same small-town school, was a delightful aspect of ’Beg, Borrow or Steal’. their verbal jousts were absolutely delicious.

however, I couldn't help but feel that the characters' depth and their day-to-day struggles and mental health were underexplored, which could have further enriched the narrative. some plot elements, such as both protagonists being teachers and authors, felt too coincidental.

additionally, I found the male lead's decision to traverse the globe to be with his ex-fiancée—someone he never truly loved but was going to marry—to be quite unsettling. given that he and the female protagonist had shared a deep connection over the years, this choice felt inconsistent.

all in all, it was a fast pasted read and i especially loved reconnecting with some dear characters and to be thrown once again in the hilarious neighbourhood of Rome!

many thanks to NetGalley and the publishers for providing an e-ARC in exchange for an honest review.

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WHAT DO YOU MEAN I JUST GOT THE ARC ?????

[cherie ^_-★ · Rating 5 out of 5]

5 stars ⭐️
⤷ spoiler-free review!! ⋆౨ৎ˚⟡˖ ࣪

ˏˋ°•*⁀➷ my thoughts
my first 5-star read in nearly half a year 😭😭😭 i was worried i wasn’t going to love this book as much as when in rome or practice makes perfect since i’ve read so many romance books and my tastes have changed a bit over the past year, but boy, was i wrong! i waited over 8 months for this book, and it was SO worth it. it’s been ages since a romance book made me feel this way—i was smiling, giggling, and kicking my feet like a fool, laughing, tearing up—you name it.

ˏˋ°•*⁀➷ characters
♡.ᐟ emily
“No one needs me. And when they don’t need me, they don’t come around anymore either because I am a utility sponge. I am useful. And if I’m no use to someone anymore, they throw me under the sink.”

emily had so much depth, and i found her incredibly relatable. as the oldest daughter, she carried a heavy responsibility, always taking care of her sisters and making sure they were okay, all while grappling with her own struggles and grieving the loss of her parents. she feels overwhelming lonely, constantly believing that nobody loves or needs her, and that she’ll be alone forever. she keeps everything bottled up inside, and the way she pretended to be happy for her loved ones as they moved forward with their lives, even though she was falling apart inside, completely wrecked me 😭

♡.ᐟ jack
“I don’t like to get too close to people. I always have this feeling like something will go wrong if I do—so it’s been easier to keep to myself.”

I LOVE HOT NERDS!!!!! 🫦 i’m convinced that every fictional man named bennett is a walking green flag, and i think jack might just be my favourite MMC in this series now 🤭

everyone can’t help but love jack because of his charm, but deep down, he craves validation and approval from others—a coping mechanism he developed because of his narcissistic dad.

“My dad is a narcissist. I don’t mean it in a hyperbolic way either. I’m pretty certain that he is an actual narcissist. My life growing up . . . it was painful a lot. And I quickly learned that saying what I truly thought or felt could get turned on me in an instant. Honestly, vulnerability . . . those things were what I got rid of first. And then I learned the art of reading him. Reading his moods and his energy and becoming what I needed to be to get through the day and to protect my mom from his shit. That mechanism bled into the rest of my life too . . . mostly by accident. I read people and adapt before I even realize I’m doing it. It’s usually not until later when I’m sitting alone, and I feel hollow and used and upset that I realise I betrayed myself in some way. And so often . . . I’m scared that all this reading and maneuvering people—even if it’s with the right intent—is somehow going to turn me into him.”

i won’t lie, i didn’t feel the same emotional depth from him as i did with emily, but i still loved him. not only is he considerate, but also mindful, apologizes when he’s in the wrong, and asks for consent?! WE NEED MORE MEN LIKE HIM IN THE REAL WORLD!!! 😫😭

“Because I may be a lot of things, but I never want to be the kind of person who can’t apologize when I’m in the wrong.”

♡.ᐟ emily and jack
I LOVE THEM SO MUCH 😭😭😭 their relationship developed so naturally, and the banter, the yearning, and the chemistry between them was EVERYTHING 😫 what i loved most was how healthy their relationship was, and how raw and real they were with each other. both of them tend to bury their feelings because they don’t want to cause pain to the people they love, but they trusted each other completely and were able to confide in one another. i truly appreciated how well they communicated and how understanding they were with each other 🥹 i also thought it was pretty cute how emily used to see jack as competition, while he never saw her that way, and they both secretly enjoyed bickering with each other as it was the one constant in their lives 🥲

“So this is not an emergency?”
“It is. Why don’t you understand me?”
“I’m listening, Emily. What do you need?”
“I need you to fix it.”
“Name it. I’ll do it for you.”
“Roll back time.”
“Whatever it is, you’re going to be okay. I promise. I’ll make sure of it.”

“Say it out loud, Emily. Let me inside that brain of yours.”
“Do you know part of the reason I didn’t want you to be my neighbor? Because everyone loves you as soon as they meet you, but most people only tolerate me. This town, though… they love me and my spikes. It’s my sanctuary. My safe space. Maybe it’s because they loved my parents, and they love my siblings—I don’t know, and I don’t always feel like I deserve it. But they do—and I was afraid that if you moved into my town that I love so, so much, I’d have to watch them fall in love with you over me. Because there’s never been room enough for both of us. We are two sides of the same coin—but everyone always chooses you. And I wouldn’t even blame them because you’re so damn likeable. Even when I’ve hated you, I’ve always liked you.”
“People may like me, but they don’t know me. I don’t think anyone had ever known me quite like you have. And that’s part of why I wanted to move back to Rome. Because of you. Because through our strange, twisted relationship, you’ve made me feel less alone. I wanted to be part of this town because I know that for you to love it, it has to be pretty spectacular. And I swear to you, I would never try to steal their love away from you. Couldn’t even if I wanted to. They love you more than you know. Believe me, I’ve seen firsthand how much this town worships you and your spikes.”

“I’ll be so careful with you, Emily.”

“PS. You could never be a side character.”

“Now . . . I need to be okay with being alone. Because everyone moves on eventually. But not me . . . I’ll always be right here where they left me.”
“… You are not alone, Emily. I would walk through my worst memories to get to you every single time.”

“Emily . . . when I told you I care for you, I mean it. It’s not that I care for some aspects of you, not that I care for you when you’re in a good mood . . . I care for you always. I want you, always. The good, the bad, and the in-between. I. Want. You. Sharp edges, hot tempered, fiercely protective, gooey heart . . . all of it. All of you.”

“… I’ve never met anyone who makes me feel so seen and known as you do, Jack. And to be honest, your friendship lately has been one of the best things to ever happen to me. And I was scared that you’d think you wanted me, and then you would get close to me and realize that I’m too tough to love. Hell, I’m difficult to even be around some days, and now I can add sad to the list too. I guess I’m saying I don’t actually want to go slow with you. I love you, Jack. I don’t want to be friends with benefits. I want to hug each other when we’re sad and help each other find the bright side of things when all we can see is the dark. And I realize I don’t have a lot to offer you at this moment in my life besides a very messy person who is somehow also a perfectionist and enjoys bickering more than she should. I can be a porcupine sometimes, but I also make really great buttered noodles and have the best movie nights with an incredible selection of snacks, and oh! I can also help you grade papers when you’re behind. I’m very good at grading. I have a super cute sticker stash too that you’re welcome to use anytime you—“
“I love you too, Emily . . . I don’t need anything from you other than for you to unlock the door for me so I can come lie with you when the darkness is too heavy to crawl out of. And if you need to fight, you can fight with me. And if you want to make love, make it with me. You think you’re unlovable, but I think I’ve never known how to love until knowing you.”

“And to think you consider yourself hard to love. Loving you is the easiest thing I’ve ever done.”

♡.ᐟ other characters
oh, how i’ve missed this small town and its found family. i love them all so so much—amelia and noah, annie and will, madison and james (I NEED THEIR BOOK RIGHT NOW 😭💳), and my favourite fictional grandmother, mabel 🥹💖 i remember finding the other town residents too nosy for my liking when i read practice makes perfect, but i couldn’t help but smile when they appeared in this book.

ˏˋ°•*⁀➷ overall
i absolutely adored this book, and this series is hands down my favorite romance series by far 🥹 i highly highly recommend reading it if you haven’t already!!!

ˏˋ°•*⁀➷ other quotes
“…she told me to find someone someday who will hug me when I’m sad and then help me look on the bright side of things when all I can see is the dark.”

"I'm no therapist by any stretch of the imagination, but I do have quite a bit of experience with tears—and in my thirty years on this earth, l've found that crying starts to feel like exercise. The more you do it, the more comfortable you become with it. And then it isn't so overwhelming anymore."

"Good. Life can be a little shit sometimes. But shit also makes great fertilizer. Grow from your experiences, don't let them smother the light out of you."

"It's okay that time is moving and changing. Maybe it's okay if I move and change too."

"Maybe not everything will end in hurt. But we'll never know if we don't try."

ˏˋ°•*⁀➷ my ratings and reviews
♡.ᐟ when in rome 🥧 (5 ⭐)
♡.ᐟ practice makes perfect 💐 (5 ⭐)
♡.ᐟ beg, borrow, or steal 📚 (5 ⭐)


pre-read 💋
happy release day!! i loved the first 2 books in this series and have been eager to read this one ~ i'm keeping my expectations in check to avoid disappointment though 😬

br with my bb maryam <3

[✨Julie✨ · Rating 4 out of 5]

✩ 4.25 stars ✩

What to Expect:
➼ Rivals-to-Lovers
➼ Coworkers
➼ Hidden Identity
➼ Neighbors
➼ Both Teachers
➼ Second Chance
➼ Banter
➼ Small Town
➼ Forced Proximity
➼ Slow Burn
➼ Duet Narration
➼ Dual POV

Just look at that stacked trope list, was there ever any doubt that this would be a winner?! I’m kind of amazed by how many people sleep on this author. I guess because her books are lower on the pepper meter and all people seem want these days is smut?? 🤔 I have loved every single book in this series and this was no exception. I think the second book might still be my favorite, but this is tied with When in Rome!

Reading this after attending the author signing made it feel extra special. 💗 I loved hearing more on her process and struggles while writing and was excited to read Emily’s story since we are both oldest daughters! I thought SA did a great job at depicting how hard we can be on ourselves and how difficult it can be for us to ask for or accept help. Emily and Jack were so well matched and the fact that it took them so long to see that made it even sweeter when they finally figured it out. It didn’t hurt that the banter along the way was perfection. 🤌🏻 The was a portion of the book near the end that felt a little drug out to me, but other than that little lull, this was an excellent read!

If you haven’t read this series yet, I definitely recommend picking it up! If you need more convincing, the author modeled the town after Gilmore Girls and the small town vibes are immaculate. They’d make the perfect February reads! 🥰

✼　 ҉ 　✼　 ҉ 　✼　 ҉ 　✼　 ҉ 　✼　 ҉ 　✼　 ҉ 　✼

Pre-read: !!!! So excited to finally start this! 🤗 Feels fitting to be starting this on the 1st of February. 💗💗

Dec 20th: Going to an author signing for this in 2 weeks! 😊👏🏻

[buket · Rating 5 out of 5]

RIVALS. BANTER. HE WEARS GLASSES. ELDEST SISTER. EMOTIONAL. CUTE. HE WEARS GLASSES. ADORABLE CAT. HE RIDES A BIKE. SHE’S SO DAMN RELATABLE. HE WEARS GLASSES. HEALTHY COMMUNICATION.

sooooooo yeah. did i mention he wears glasses?

rtc

i swear rtc. i’m just sleep deprived and high from this book rn


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i know i should be studying instead of reading but i was waiting for this so long🥹 gonna read tiniest bit 🤏🏼🩷

i also know that sarah won’t disappoint me😽

[manas (flopping so bad) · Rating 5 out of 5]

when i die, please bury me with this book.

[rei ‧₊˚✩彡 · Rating 4 out of 5]

╰┈➤ 4 stars!

this story was about emily and jack who claimed to be each other's archnemesis since college. during mid-school year, jack left rome, kentucky with his fiancée and moved to nebraska. emily never saw him returning, but he did, and he was there to stay for good—as her neighbor.

i have read the first two books of this series and absolutely loved it. it was so unexpected that i received the ARC of this, but i am ecstatic to have the privilege of providing an early review. i knew from the start that i would enjoy this book. beg, borrow or steal by sarah adams was not just about finding love when you least expect it, it was also about the emotional and heartwarming journey about grief and learning to accept change.

"And I never realized until this moment how much I needed someone to do that for me. How good it feels to be on the receiving end of a person believing in you."

౨ৎ emily. she's at a point in her life where everything changing, and it feels as if she's frozen in time while the world moves on without her. her loneliness and self-doubt made her incredibly relatable, and i loved seeing her push through her doubts and fear. what stood out to me the most was her personality—her tenacity, strength and determination.

"Grow from your experience, don't let them smother the light out of you."

౨ৎ jack. he became quickly one of my favorite book boyfriends for sure! he's kind, thoughful, and quite charming. although beneath all that, he's someone who has carried so much pain. his relationship with his father was so heartbreaking to read. some people aren't meant to be parents, and his dad is the perfect example of that. that's why i felt so proud of him when he finally decided to do something for his own well-being.

"It's a weird thing to let yourself grieve your parent who is still living, but I've done it—do it regularly, actually."

it explored how grief takes many forms—grieving those who are no longer with us and those who are still alive but have hurt us enough. another theme of this book was the importance of taking risks, even when the fear is taking over. both the main characters had their moments where they had to step out of their comfort zones. it showed that while it can be painful, it's still a chance to learn, and grow. it acts as a reminder that no matter how scary something may look like, the only way to move forward is to try.

overall, this book was more than just about emily and jack's love story—it's about growth, the courage to face change, and to see the beauty in taking risks. they left me thinking about how every step forward that i take—no matter how hard—is worth it.

Thank you to NetGalley, Random House - Ballantine, and the author for the ARC in exchange of my honest review.

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pre-read:

can’t believe i got the arc of this book! i absolutely loved the first two books and i can’t wait to read this one 😩💘

[ivy]

3/22/25: putting this on hold because i genuinely can't get myself to be interested ☹️ (ch. 10)

[Robin · Rating 5 out of 5]

the sunshine character who is nice to everyone except one person..ooh yeah i love this

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the scene of him bursting into her living room holding her manuscript full of his notes was giving married couple

also there is something so profoundly HOT about someone not only believing in your competence and approach but expecting that excellence….hmmm

“But if you don’t want to hate her, fine. I’ll hate her enough for the both of us.” (to me this is romance)

thank you to netgalley for providing the review copy in exchange for an honest review

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[annie]

WHY DO I ALWAYS MISS ARC FORMS 😭

YASSS!!! GIVE ME ALL THE WALKERS' BOOKS + WILL ANNIE CRUMBS 🤭✋🏻🥹

[Hoda · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was super cutee I enjoyed it so much!! The people in the small town were so cute slightly annoying with how they insert themselves in everyone lives but aaa i loved how they care about each-other. Emily and jacks banter was entertaining so cute!! I need jacks and his bike and glasses in my life so bad. PLEASE the way he was begging Emily to be his backpack!! HELLO He wouldn’t have to ask me twice i’d be already on the bike before he finishes the sentence 🤸🏻‍♀️ he is the love of my life🫶🏻🫶🏻

This review is short but i have the worst headache so I can’t write much but anyway I totally recommend it was soo cute and u guys need to read it.

some quotes to convince u more to read it

”you’re not alone,Emily. I would walk through my worst memories to get to you every single time”

“You think you’re unlovable, but I think I’ve never known how to love until knowing you”

“ I don’t think i’ve ever really felt loved until her”

“ I’ve always struggled with connection. So it was nice to get it in books if no where else”

“You make me feel wild, Emily. I’ve never cared about anyone like i care about you”

“Loving you is the easiest thing i’be ever done”

“ I don’t need anything from you other than for u to unlock the door for me so I can come lie with you when the darkness is too heavy to crawl out of it. And if you need to fight,fight with me”

[Nilufer Ozmekik · Rating 5 out of 5]

Yes, another blazing five-star review from me—no surprise there! I can’t resist the charm of revisiting my favorite small town, Rome, Kentucky, to explore more of the Walker siblings’ romantic escapades. While Will and Annie’s book has been my favorite in the series, I thoroughly enjoyed Emily and Jack’s love story just as much, thanks to its delightful blend of enemies-to-lovers and forced-proximity tropes, along with the incredibly likable characters.

What happens when college frenemies and former colleagues reunite as neighbors? Emily Walker, who has loathed every fiber of the pretentious, devilishly charming Jack Bennett since he spilled coffee on her and brazenly flirted with her during their first meeting on campus, is about to find out. What started as a meet-cute quickly turned into a full-blown rivalry, with the two battling over everything from lecture seats to teaching assignments during their years as middle school teachers.

When Jack tied the knot and moved to Nebraska with his fiancée, Zoe, Emily found herself dealing with some confusing emotions—could she actually miss her nemesis, or was she just frustrated he didn’t even bother to say goodbye? But there’s no need to dwell on it, because Jack is back, newly single and starting fresh in Rome. His first mistake? Moving into the run-down building right next door to Emily’s house.

Emily can barely tolerate seeing Jack occupy her favorite spot at the local coffee shop, but living next door? That’s where she draws the line. Determined to drive him away, she sabotages his renovation efforts and even tries to turn the town against him. However, when her secret side hustle as a romance writer is accidentally exposed—courtesy of an email to her ultra-conservative school principal—Emily realizes she has no one else to turn to for help but Jack.

Surprisingly, Jack agrees to save the day, and Emily begins to wonder if she’s been wrong about him all along. Beneath his mischievous, pretentious façade lies a caring, golden heart. Could he be more than just an enemy-turned-ally? Their growing chemistry certainly suggests so, but you’ll have to read to find out what happens next!

Overall: This is a cute, heartfelt romance with the perfect execution of enemies-to-lovers and excellent chemistry between the characters. My only gripe is the slightly abrupt ending, but I’m still rounding up my 4.5 stars to a glowing 5-star rating. I’m already eagerly anticipating Madison and James’s story in the next book!

Many thanks to NetGalley and Random House Publishing Group/Ballantine/Dell for providing this amazing romance’s digital review copy in exchange for my honest thoughts.

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[steph ⋅˚₊ &#x1065a; ྀི (mostly inactive) · Rating 4 out of 5]

4★

main thoughts:
this was super adorable and fun and I absolutely loved reading it🤭 I have read rom-coms books that are similar to this one, but I don't care because this book made me feel things that I wasn't expecting to feel. The characters and found family is just everything to me😽 I could read more scenes from emily and jack and never get bored, like I really wanted more scenes from them when they became a official couple but their still the cutest. Not to mention the fact that this book will make you feel like the loneliest person in the world omg🥲

⤷ the realness and emotional impact this book gave me might just be a me thing, but I found myself relating to a lot of phrases or words in this book and even managed to get teary eyed when this book really isn't a sad one at all necessarily.

characters:
Emily: ✐ᝰ I am behind her completly this is my girl and yes she can be considered complex or complicated, but idc because I related to her on multiple levels and her sense of happiness that she found for herself is what I wish for personally. She has so many qualities I admire and she really cares for the people around her.

Jack: ⚯🛠️ that’s my cutie pie of a man, I loved him since the beginning I just couldn’t make myself hate him, I really couldn’t. I need a Jack in my life in fact I’m pissed that I don’t😭 the way he payed attention to all the little things will always get to me and I like that he had a sorta secret past and layers behind him.

romance: 𓍯𓂃
one of my top favorite things about this book is the romance, the way emily and jack are so Intertwined in each others life was everything, they are meant to be in every way possible. Could they have gotten together sooner? Possibly but I liked the little bit of buildup and tension. One thing I do want to say is that I never fully considered them as enemies to lovers imo they made it seem like they hated each other, but behind closed doors it was different. Either way idc I love both of them so much.

quotes I loved:🩷

“I’m not sorry you thought I was someone else because for once I got a taste of what it’s like to be a person you don’t hate, and I . . .”
“I can’t bring myself to regret that.”

“Whatever it is, you’re going to be okay. I promise. I’ll make sure of it.”

“I don’t think anyone has ever known me quite like you have. And that’s part of why I wanted to move back to Rome. Because of you. Because through our strange, twisted relationship, you’ve made me feel less alone. I wanted to be part of this town because I know that for you to love it, it has to be pretty spectacular.

“Because you’re the only person I’m nothing but honest with.”

”I’ll be so careful with you, Emily,”

“You think you’re unlovable, but I think I’ve never known how to love until knowing you.”

extra:
This book might seem basic to others and boring and sure it may have tiny flaws, but it was perfect to me so idc it was a enjoyable read and entertaining and I’m glad I took the leap and read it, I think everyone should give this book a chance.

pre review:
╰┈➤ finished on january thirteenth, 2025
well that was adorable and I'm going to spend the rest of the night thinking about how lonely I am rtc

📚pre read:✍️
╰┈➤ started on january twelfth, 2025
so I haven’t read the other books in this series, but I’ve seen this everywhere and have been so excited to read it plus multiple people told me too and I decided to listen😭 pls be good🤞🏻

[Madi · Rating 5 out of 5]

I absolutely loved this book! It was everything I could’ve hoped for—fun, sweet, and packed with swoony moments. 💖

Emily is such a gem. She’s hardworking, a bit chaotic in the best way, and totally passionate about her job. She’s also the oldest daughter, and that really added an extra layer to her character. She always had my heart breaking, and I found myself crying multiple times because of her struggles. Her love for her family, her dedication to everything she does, and her own personal challenges were so relatable and touching.

And Jack—sigh, he was perfect. He’s grumpy on the outside but has such a soft heart underneath. I really loved how, despite his cool and laid-back exterior, he showed Emily that he cares more than he lets on. He’s the kind of guy who takes care of people in his own quiet way, and it was so heartwarming to see him open up more as the story went on. 💕

Their relationship was absolutely adorable. The years of rivalry between them turned into something so sweet and genuine. I loved watching them go from constantly competing to finding themselves on the same team, helping each other out. The tension between them was so good, and their banter was fun and full of sparks. As they began to trust each other more and let down their walls, it felt so natural to watch them fall in love. The way they supported one another made my heart melt.

This book was such a sweet, feel-good romance with so much heart. Emily and Jack have definitely stolen my heart, and I’m still thinking about them long after finishing the book!!

[kella ౨ৎ · Rating 5 out of 5]

જ⁀➴ 5 stars
⤿ i love small town romances

"i’ve never known how to love until knowing you.”

♫ | imgonnagetyouback
whether i’m gonna flip you off or
pull you into the closet

💌 my thoughts
stop, i actually adored this book so much! 🥹 and aaa first five-star read of the year! being back in rome, kentucky was so nostalgic and i adore this little town! 🫶🏻 can i move there please?
emily and jack were so precious and i just love them. enemies-to-lovers, forced proximity, and they're both elementary school teachers and writers. i thought them pulling the “heist” was so fun lol. and the closet scene >>
i also loved the theme of not being afraid to open up and rely on others when you need it <3 this book made me laugh, feel, and want to hug these characters sm!

🏫 characters
⤿ emily
i definitely related to emily in being an older sister and being scared of becoming a burden. tbh she didn’t appeal to me too much in the other books but she grew on me in this one! and she seems like an incredible teacher; where was she when i was in grade 2? good teachers can really make all the difference. she was just a lovable and relatable character!

“i want to hug each other when we’re sad and help each other find the bright side of things when all we can see is the dark.”

⤿ jackson
UM HELLO?? jackson bennett is my new book bf! this man was so considerate, supportive, and such a kind soul. like, you’re telling me he has dirty blond hair, glasses, tattoos, rides a motorcycle, is good with kids, has a sense of humour, and reads? and he has “friendship necklaces” from his grade 2 students that he rotates out 😭 like stop it, that's so precious, i can't—

“i’d show you my absolute worst again and again, and you kept coming back for more.”

⤿ side characters
my heart was so happy when i saw them all again :) esp will and annie, they’re my fav! and the ending—aww i’m so happy for them! 🥹 and ofc amelia and noah. i loved seeing more of madison and emily’s relationship as sisters too. but also i’m so invested in maddie and james (i can't wait for their book)!

📚 romance
i love two mcs who can communicate 😌 (well, not at first—they did have a misunderstanding in college). but these two were soo adorable together! i loved their bickering, their retalliations, and the way they understood each other 🩷 and their emails were the cherry on top!!

“i care for you always. i want you always. the good, the bad, and the in-between. i. want. you. sharp-edged, hot tempered, fiercely protective, gooey heart…all of it. all of you."

💐 concluding thoughts
this was such a cute and heartfelt read and i loved it from start to finish! jack and emily have my heart <3 definitely check out the when in rome series if you haven't yet!

🖇️ quotes
“suddenly, chasing this old feud doesn’t seem nearly as appealing as chasing that smile.”

“people like me, but they don't know me. i don’t think anyone has ever known me quite like you have. and that’s part of why i wanted to move back to rome. because of you. becasue through our strange, twisted relationship, you’ve made me feel less alone.”

“‘i never thought my leaving would cause you so much pain.’
‘go eat your pie.’”

“i have freedom from perfection with him, and that’s the best gift i’ve ever recieved from anyone.”

“loving you is the easiest thing i’ve ever done.”

🏫 | pre-read
it's time to read one of my most anticipated reads of this year!! yayay i'm literally so excited for this one—i have a feeling that it might be a five stars? 🤭 crossing my fingers that it will be 🤞🏻 the 'when in rome' series is one of my favs and i can't wait to be back in the small town of rome, kentucky again!

[vicky ꨄ︎ (study season) · Rating 5 out of 5]

ೀ 5★ .ᐟ
𐙚⋆°. finished: 5.1.25


“I want to hug each other when we’re sad and help each other find the bright side of things when all we can see is the dark.”


I finally got a 5-star read after months and months trying to get one! I am physical unwell on how much I adore this book and the characters. I’m literally so happy that I started the year of with this book. Sarah Adams has a way with writing books that leave me on a chokehold. This book was literally everything I needed. It dived deep into personal growth and the importance of learning to accept yourself, which I found myself relating to it a bit too much. It was so beautifully written.

This was my most anticipated read of this year and it give me more than I thought it would. The book has so much banter, so much cuteness and raw emotional struggles.



⤿ Emily
I’m the oldest daughter so I really could relate to everything that Emily was going through. The way she cares about her siblings happiness more than her own honestly just broke my heart for her. The way she is terrified to open her heart up to love other people just made me feel so heartbroken.


⤿ Jack
The love of my life. He’s so perfect like I’ll happily take him off Emily. Every single time I got a scene about Jacks father my heart broke into a million pieces. Every single time he tried to be there for him mum, so that she has someone to help her to leave him and she still hasn’t accepted the help honestly broke me. Jack cares so deeply about his mother and just want her to be happy even if it means having to deal with his narcissistic father. I love the way he didn’t stop that from letting him become an amazing and caring person.





Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for this arc in exchange for an honest review.

















ೀ preread ᡣ𐭩
𐙚⋆°. started: 1.1.25

First read of 2025! I’m finally starting this!!! I’m so so excited






I GOT APPROVED FOR THE ARC!!! literally just made my day. Need to find time to read it this week!

[Chloe Liese · Rating 5 out of 5]

Sarah's best yet <3. Loved loved loved.

"I would walk through my worst memories to get to you every single time."
"We need each other, and that’s good."

(I'm fine. Totally fine.)

[emma ⚘ · Rating 4 out of 5]

4.5 stars ✮

”Loving you is the easiest thing I’ve ever done.”

this is her BEST book. and my new favorite of hers. i knew i wouldn’t be disappointed. my heart feels so full, i love these characters so much. noah and amelia, will and annie (!!), james’ and madison’s book next hopefully, and now, jack and emily. their relationship is so meaningful—and not just because it’s one of her more “open-door” romances. the way they communicated, the patience they had with each other, and just how perfectly matched they are. emily and jack are both (secretly) writers and they both share the same passion for it. emily is an older sibling who is used to handling everything, and an independent perfectionist. jack is selfless, charismatic, and would do absolutely anything for emily. i was obsessed with reading about them.

my normal reading pace is a page a minute, but with this book, it felt like a chapter a minute. i was addicted to this book. the pacing was perfect. her books are so easy to binge. this one was one of her longer ones, meaning the chapters were a little longer and the ending was drawn out more. surprisingly, i could not be more thankful for that.

i can tell Sarah Adams really took her time with this. she made sure she didn’t rush the ending and that their issues were fully worked out before moving into their relationship. usually, she’ll include a small conflict that’ll resolve easily and finish the book off at 300 pages (which was never really a problem). in this one, she added some conflicts that didn’t just have to do with the romance. jack had to worry about his parent’s relationship, being that his dad was narcissistic and didn’t treat jack’s mother well. and emily had to deal with the loss of her grandmother and overall feeling alone. they both were able to combat these conflicts by the end, and not without each other.

the key was communication in this book. i will admit, half of what these characters said was quite unrealistic and felt like a scripted version of their thoughts (if that makes sense?). but it added a lot of emotion to the story which is something that i find was lacking in her other books. i could clearly feel every emotion that was expressed in this. it was a nice change to see the characters grappling with personal conflicts instead of just miscommunication or something completely immature.

and i love love love that the when in Rome series departs from all the cringey, weird lines from her older books. she still was able to maintain her signature lighthearted, fun style of writing without personifying the FMC’s ovaries or putting some childish thought in all caps. this is definitely her most popular series for a reason.

and for those wondering, this is not clean, but the scenes can be easily skipped without missing anything important. i did not personally skip the scenes because they weren’t at all graphic and only lasted maybe less than a page. i was scared for her to take this approach with her books, as her previous ones have been less serious. she actually did a great job talking about physical intimacy and connection. it is not just the connection itself that matters, but what comes after and the communication. jack and emily were both mature characters and i found their relationship with one another to be so heartwarming and meaningful.

if you’re considering reading this, please read the series in order. honestly, this isn’t one of those romance series where you can read out of order. it has to be read in order. the proper introduction to the small town of Rome is in the first book and continues to get better with each. (Mabel was iconic as always and served with some wise advice. she’s always there for the MMC’s when they don’t know how to confess their love.) i loved all their little traditions and how fast gossip spread in the town. i was cracking up when Will was talking with Pete and Harriet at the store. he became a small town guy SO fast. it’s almost hard to believe he was a bodyguard at one point. and the fact he’s becoming a teacher?? hottt. everything about Rome is so charming and comforting. i already have my reread of the series planned!

anyway, i HIGHLY recommend this (if you couldn’t already tell). such a sweet book, and so easy to binge. jack and emily have my heart!!

QUOTES ₊˚⊹ ᰔ

or why jack bennett is perfect.

“I can’t get her off my mind. I want to spend every second of the day with her. I want to make up for every day of every year I spent fighting with her instead of loving her.”

“You are not alone, Emily. I would walk through my worst memories to get to you every single time.”

“Take it out on me. All your anger. All your humiliation. Take it out on me because I can stand it. But I’ll be damned before I let you wreck something that you’ve worked so hard for. Something that you deserve. Something you love.”

“It’s none of your business. My decisions are my own.”
“Dammit, Emily, they don’t have to be though! Just talk to me. Tell me exactly what hurts. Let me be here for you.”

“Emily…when I told you I care for you, I mean it. It’s not that I care for some aspects of you, not that I care for you when you’re in a good mood…I care for you always. I want you, always. The good, the bad, the in between. I. Want. You.”

“And to think you consider yourself hard to love.” I kiss her temple. “Loving you is the easiest thing I’ve ever done.”

[tanveer ⋆｡✧ · Rating 5 out of 5]

the best sarah adams book (ever?) 💌

rating: 6 freakin' ✮