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I'll Have What She's Having
In hilarious and tender essays, #1 New York Times bestselling author Chelsea Handler shares her unforgettable story of becoming the woman she always wanted to be.
There’s a woman I want to become, Chelsea Handler thought as a child. She’ll be strong and confident. She’ll light up a room and spread that light to make others feel better. She’ll make a living being herself. She’ll be a survivor.
At ten years old, Chelsea opened a lemonade stand and realized she’d make more money if the drinks were spiked. So she added vodka to her recipe and used her earnings to upgrade herself to first-class on a family vacation—leaving her parents and siblings in coach. She moved to Los Angeles and got fired from her temp job when she admitted she didn’t know how to transfer calls. She’s played pickleball with the scions of an American dynasty. She’s sexted a governor. She shared psychedelics with strangers in Spain. When she accidentally ended up at dinner with Woody Allen, she was not going to leave the table without asking him a very personal pointed question. She went on national television and talked about having threesomes. She's never been one to hold back.
But this life of adventure and absurdity is only part of her story. Chelsea knows what it is to truly show up for her family—canine and human, biological and chosen. She’s discovered how to spend time with herself, how to meditate, how to be open to love, and how to end a relationship with dignity. She is a sister to the many women who rely on her.
Surprisingly vulnerable and always outrageous, Chelsea Handler captures the antic-filled, exhilarating, and joyful life she’s built—a life that makes the rest of us think, I’ll have what she’s having.
There’s a woman I want to become, Chelsea Handler thought as a child. She’ll be strong and confident. She’ll light up a room and spread that light to make others feel better. She’ll make a living being herself. She’ll be a survivor.
At ten years old, Chelsea opened a lemonade stand and realized she’d make more money if the drinks were spiked. So she added vodka to her recipe and used her earnings to upgrade herself to first-class on a family vacation—leaving her parents and siblings in coach. She moved to Los Angeles and got fired from her temp job when she admitted she didn’t know how to transfer calls. She’s played pickleball with the scions of an American dynasty. She’s sexted a governor. She shared psychedelics with strangers in Spain. When she accidentally ended up at dinner with Woody Allen, she was not going to leave the table without asking him a very personal pointed question. She went on national television and talked about having threesomes. She's never been one to hold back.
But this life of adventure and absurdity is only part of her story. Chelsea knows what it is to truly show up for her family—canine and human, biological and chosen. She’s discovered how to spend time with herself, how to meditate, how to be open to love, and how to end a relationship with dignity. She is a sister to the many women who rely on her.
Surprisingly vulnerable and always outrageous, Chelsea Handler captures the antic-filled, exhilarating, and joyful life she’s built—a life that makes the rest of us think, I’ll have what she’s having.
320 pages, Hardcover
Published February 25, 2025
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Chelsea Handler
16 books4,981 followersChelsea Handler is a writer, comedian, producer, TV host, activist, and the author of six consecutive New York Times bestsellers. She hosted the late-night talk show Chelsea Lately on the E! network from 2007 to 2014 and released a documentary series, Chelsea Does, on Netflix in January 2016. In 2016 and 2017, Handler hosted the talk show Chelsea on Netflix. Her Netflix comedy special, Revolution, was released in 2022 and is now streaming. Her beloved advice podcast, Dear Chelsea, is in its fifth season and her fourth stand-up special will be released by Netflix in 2025.
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January 13, 2025
ARC for review. To be published February 25, 2025.
3 stars.
Your enjoyment of this book may depend on how interested you are in Chelsea Handler. I’ve read a couple of her earlier published books and this is not the Chelsea of old, careening drunkenly into failed relationships and laughing at her own selfishness. New Chelsea has been through a lot of therapy and has decided to change her life (in some ways. She is still pretty self-indulgent and self-congratulatory) and it appears she has succeeded.
However, the book is simply part of her ongoing biography. It isn’t funny and I don’t know that it’s meant to be. It seems as if Chelsea wants to show everyone how much she has evolved and be lauded for it, because self-contentment doesn’t really seem to be her thing, she wants everyone to be seeing her; she is always performing, even here. Not that I doubt her sincerity about wanting to make changes to her life; I don’t, and she really seems to be wonderful to her family and those closest to her.
So, for me, this was a clear 3 star read because I was here for the irreverent funny and that was missing here. But The can’t hate on a book about a woman who is on a well-meant journey.
3 stars.
Your enjoyment of this book may depend on how interested you are in Chelsea Handler. I’ve read a couple of her earlier published books and this is not the Chelsea of old, careening drunkenly into failed relationships and laughing at her own selfishness. New Chelsea has been through a lot of therapy and has decided to change her life (in some ways. She is still pretty self-indulgent and self-congratulatory) and it appears she has succeeded.
However, the book is simply part of her ongoing biography. It isn’t funny and I don’t know that it’s meant to be. It seems as if Chelsea wants to show everyone how much she has evolved and be lauded for it, because self-contentment doesn’t really seem to be her thing, she wants everyone to be seeing her; she is always performing, even here. Not that I doubt her sincerity about wanting to make changes to her life; I don’t, and she really seems to be wonderful to her family and those closest to her.
So, for me, this was a clear 3 star read because I was here for the irreverent funny and that was missing here. But The can’t hate on a book about a woman who is on a well-meant journey.
April 6, 2025
I usually find Handler very funny, but I was rather annoyed by this one: It's a meandering celebration of therapy, often focusing on the ways the author used to express her opinions, i.e. being a condescending asshole, a mode of being in the world she has worked to replace with a more respectful, loving approach - and good for her, we all should invest more time in bettering ourselves in order to become part of the solution instead of the problem. I also applaud Handler for persistently showing the middle finger to those who attack her for not fulfilling stereotypical female roles, and for how she laughs about the stupidity and humorlessness of toxic gender norms.
But this jumps back and forth, puts random spotlights here and there, frequently reads like therapy is just another superiority flex... also, I couldn't care less about skiing! :-)
Not my cup of tea.
But this jumps back and forth, puts random spotlights here and there, frequently reads like therapy is just another superiority flex... also, I couldn't care less about skiing! :-)
Not my cup of tea.
February 27, 2025
3.5 Stars rounded up.
I've always been a fan of Chelsea Handler and laughed hysterically through her earlier books, her tv show, and standup. I could relate to the partying and ludicrous decision making ability and the problems of our own making. I've been there. And much like Chelsea, I've realized I want something more and have put in the work to become the person I want to be. Am I there yet? No. Will I ever be there? Nope. Not to be to morbid but the end destination for all of us is death so why not enjoy the time we have but also try to better ourselves?
I come from the world of product and software development where we are always striving for continuous improvement which is what I draw on in my personal life but also recognized in Chelsea's new book, I'll Have What She's Having. Chelsea reminds the reader it's about how you show up and make choices based on the person we want to be rather than being chained to the past or our previous iterations. We decide our present and future.
I'll Have What She's Having is the next step in Handler's evolution and she invites us for the ride. I laughed, I cried, I related, and I pondered. I truly enjoyed this read and found meaning in my own life. Some of the essays didn't call to me but that's okay, I just kept it moving and found something that would speak to me and I always did. There is something for everybody.
If Chelsea's having a heavy pour of personal growth, kindness to ourselves and others, humility as well as hilarity, a healthy dose of introspection, vulnerability, and pure joy—then 100% I'll Have What She's Having.
I've always been a fan of Chelsea Handler and laughed hysterically through her earlier books, her tv show, and standup. I could relate to the partying and ludicrous decision making ability and the problems of our own making. I've been there. And much like Chelsea, I've realized I want something more and have put in the work to become the person I want to be. Am I there yet? No. Will I ever be there? Nope. Not to be to morbid but the end destination for all of us is death so why not enjoy the time we have but also try to better ourselves?
I come from the world of product and software development where we are always striving for continuous improvement which is what I draw on in my personal life but also recognized in Chelsea's new book, I'll Have What She's Having. Chelsea reminds the reader it's about how you show up and make choices based on the person we want to be rather than being chained to the past or our previous iterations. We decide our present and future.
I'll Have What She's Having is the next step in Handler's evolution and she invites us for the ride. I laughed, I cried, I related, and I pondered. I truly enjoyed this read and found meaning in my own life. Some of the essays didn't call to me but that's okay, I just kept it moving and found something that would speak to me and I always did. There is something for everybody.
If Chelsea's having a heavy pour of personal growth, kindness to ourselves and others, humility as well as hilarity, a healthy dose of introspection, vulnerability, and pure joy—then 100% I'll Have What She's Having.
January 20, 2025
I’ll Have What She’s Having 🥂
By Chelsea Handler
I’m a huge fan of Chelsea Handler. I find her hilarious and a true feminist icon. I’m constantly amazed by her self-reflection and awareness. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed everything she’s written, watched her show, and even seen her live. I was thrilled to receive this advanced copy in exchange for my honest review.
In her latest life chapter, she concentrates on her ongoing journey toward enlightenment, her tumultuous love affair with Joe Koy, and her subsequent breakup with the comedian. Her path towards continued happiness contains love, laughter, and believe it or not - children.
That said, there were some glaring issues that I couldn’t overlook. The memoir felt disjointed, almost like a collection of short stories rather than a cohesive novel. It was also self-aggrandizing in the worst way possible. She spends a significant amount of time discussing her desire to be less selfish and less self-absorbed, but the entire narrative feels exactly that - self-absorbed. Pages and pages dedicated to her own greatness and her efforts to be giving, while simultaneously insisting that she will never put herself second to anyone else again. It simply felt counterproductive.
Furthermore, it lacked humor. The humor I had anticipated was nowhere to be found. Instead, it was more self-help and less comedy, which wasn’t what I had hoped for.
Overall, it was a good book, but it wasn’t her best work. I miss the vulnerable, angry, and gossipy Chelsea. Self-actualized Chelsea just isn’t as entertaining.
I would recommend this book to individuals who are fans of Chelsea Handler, self-reflection enthusiasts, and therapy practitioners.
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By Chelsea Handler
I’m a huge fan of Chelsea Handler. I find her hilarious and a true feminist icon. I’m constantly amazed by her self-reflection and awareness. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed everything she’s written, watched her show, and even seen her live. I was thrilled to receive this advanced copy in exchange for my honest review.
In her latest life chapter, she concentrates on her ongoing journey toward enlightenment, her tumultuous love affair with Joe Koy, and her subsequent breakup with the comedian. Her path towards continued happiness contains love, laughter, and believe it or not - children.
That said, there were some glaring issues that I couldn’t overlook. The memoir felt disjointed, almost like a collection of short stories rather than a cohesive novel. It was also self-aggrandizing in the worst way possible. She spends a significant amount of time discussing her desire to be less selfish and less self-absorbed, but the entire narrative feels exactly that - self-absorbed. Pages and pages dedicated to her own greatness and her efforts to be giving, while simultaneously insisting that she will never put herself second to anyone else again. It simply felt counterproductive.
Furthermore, it lacked humor. The humor I had anticipated was nowhere to be found. Instead, it was more self-help and less comedy, which wasn’t what I had hoped for.
Overall, it was a good book, but it wasn’t her best work. I miss the vulnerable, angry, and gossipy Chelsea. Self-actualized Chelsea just isn’t as entertaining.
I would recommend this book to individuals who are fans of Chelsea Handler, self-reflection enthusiasts, and therapy practitioners.
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March 18, 2025
I've read all of Chelsea's books and this is the best one. Its actually not even close.
I am moved by how much she has grown as a person. She went from curmudgeonly late-night ice queen to a sorta wise, psychedelic step-dad (read book for context).
Chelsea's technical writing ability has improved greatly ~
Miss Handler’s prior memoirs all have a breezy, conversational, easy-reading quality; but this one is a little more literary, a little more ambitious. And she pulls it off!
Low-key craving a novel or play from Chelsea after finishing I'll Have What She's Having. I really think it could be something special. She has always had the dedication and creativity, but now she undeniably has the skill.
Chelsea if you are reading this please give fiction a try!
I am moved by how much she has grown as a person. She went from curmudgeonly late-night ice queen to a sorta wise, psychedelic step-dad (read book for context).
Chelsea's technical writing ability has improved greatly ~
Miss Handler’s prior memoirs all have a breezy, conversational, easy-reading quality; but this one is a little more literary, a little more ambitious. And she pulls it off!
Low-key craving a novel or play from Chelsea after finishing I'll Have What She's Having. I really think it could be something special. She has always had the dedication and creativity, but now she undeniably has the skill.
Chelsea if you are reading this please give fiction a try!
March 16, 2025
I really loved this, and her memoir prior. They are both more personal than her others - she’s published 6! - yet still outwardly funny and rife with dark humor. A theme of gratitude runs through this personal essay collection, which covers Covid times, our re-emergence from solitude, becoming the woman she has always strived to be; someone she can be proud of. A must-read for Chelsea fans! This has sparked a reread of her backlist.
February 28, 2025
Good step fathers are unsung heroes
March 21, 2025
100000/10. changed the way i think. honestly didn’t expect to take so much away from this book but wow!
February 14, 2025
Nothing stands the test of time quite like a tree. Leaves come and go. Always be the tree.
Oooh, OH! This was niiiiice. I kinda, sorta, definitely loved it. Thank you, Netgalley and Penguin Random House/The Dial Press, for the eARC copy to review!
This felt like a very therapizing (is this a word yet?) experience, but in a very good way. Listen, I’m a closeted Chelsea Handler Stan, use this information at your own discretion. Never bought into the hate regarding her, and after reading this, I am sat and would listen to her talk for hours (which essentially I just did by reading this)
If you are ever given the opportunity to spend an inordinate amount of time alone, take it. The more scared you are of being alone, the more necessary it is to do. Run toward yourself with open arms. That is where your truth is waiting.
From what I’m understanding, this is a whole new Chelsea. She seems to have greatly benefited from therapy and has now changed her mentality on a lot of things: commitment regarding both relationships and family, her perspective on parenthood, how caring over how she is perceived, and how much information she is willing to divulge in order to honor any other parties involved in her history.
“Like many things in life, it is our choice to decide what type of person we are aiming to become. To be present-minded, be fully aware, and have mental clarity aren’t easy things to come by. I know the work I had to put in to get the negative voices out of my head, to look inward when I feel down, to pick up a book and read. That is also a practice.”
This was an incredibly refreshing take on an autobiography, or story of the a life changed as one enters a new chapter in her life. Heavily dosed with natural humor, the realness of a human despite the celebrity and stories of family, I’ll Have What She’s Having is an easy read that may shift some of your own perspectives. The question is, what kind of woman do you want to be? 5/5, easily.
“You’re a woman, after all. You are one of the most powerful creatures on the planet. You’ll get where you’re going.”
Oooh, OH! This was niiiiice. I kinda, sorta, definitely loved it. Thank you, Netgalley and Penguin Random House/The Dial Press, for the eARC copy to review!
This felt like a very therapizing (is this a word yet?) experience, but in a very good way. Listen, I’m a closeted Chelsea Handler Stan, use this information at your own discretion. Never bought into the hate regarding her, and after reading this, I am sat and would listen to her talk for hours (which essentially I just did by reading this)
If you are ever given the opportunity to spend an inordinate amount of time alone, take it. The more scared you are of being alone, the more necessary it is to do. Run toward yourself with open arms. That is where your truth is waiting.
From what I’m understanding, this is a whole new Chelsea. She seems to have greatly benefited from therapy and has now changed her mentality on a lot of things: commitment regarding both relationships and family, her perspective on parenthood, how caring over how she is perceived, and how much information she is willing to divulge in order to honor any other parties involved in her history.
“Like many things in life, it is our choice to decide what type of person we are aiming to become. To be present-minded, be fully aware, and have mental clarity aren’t easy things to come by. I know the work I had to put in to get the negative voices out of my head, to look inward when I feel down, to pick up a book and read. That is also a practice.”
This was an incredibly refreshing take on an autobiography, or story of the a life changed as one enters a new chapter in her life. Heavily dosed with natural humor, the realness of a human despite the celebrity and stories of family, I’ll Have What She’s Having is an easy read that may shift some of your own perspectives. The question is, what kind of woman do you want to be? 5/5, easily.
“You’re a woman, after all. You are one of the most powerful creatures on the planet. You’ll get where you’re going.”
April 8, 2025
In I'll Have What She's Having, Chelsea Handler shares amusing (often hilarious) stories and anecdotes about her family, relationships, pets and other memories from her life. The focus of the essays is all about uplifting and encouraging others through sharing the gifts and love that Chelsea has experienced throughout her life.
"This woman I'll become, she will never be silent." pg 4
Through the use of meditation, exercise, professional therapy, and various psychedelics, Ms. Handler has reached a relatively stable and positive stage of her life. As someone who has enjoyed her books and stand-up comedy for years, it is such a pleasure to read that she is both happy and thriving.
"None of the things other people have called me has ever really mattered. What other people say about you only matters if you believe what they are saying is true." pg 18
She not only stands up for herself in these pages- defending her choices and lifestyle from both naysayers and judgey people of all types, but she also stands up for others. Ms. Handler has a talent for seeing how someone else is hurting and bringing them the comfort that they need most at that time.
It is a rare gift.
"Sitting around and thinking of all the people who don't love you or don't want to hang out with you diminishes your own light. ... There are many moments in life when your own light is all you need." pg 104
As someone who is childless by choice, Ms. Handler does not use this as an excuse to be standoffish when the young people in her life need assistance. In this book, she discusses at length how she is a matriarch/patriarch to both her family and her friends' children. She sets an example for how to be and interact in the world- as a strong woman and parental figure.
I believe it is this type of behavior that builds strong communities, which uplifts everyone. Well done, Chelsea!
Highly recommended for readers who enjoy Ms. Handler's comedy but also anyone who is looking for a pick-me-up in book form. I took great courage from I'll Have What She's Having and I hope others do too.
"This woman I'll become, she will never be silent." pg 4
Through the use of meditation, exercise, professional therapy, and various psychedelics, Ms. Handler has reached a relatively stable and positive stage of her life. As someone who has enjoyed her books and stand-up comedy for years, it is such a pleasure to read that she is both happy and thriving.
"None of the things other people have called me has ever really mattered. What other people say about you only matters if you believe what they are saying is true." pg 18
She not only stands up for herself in these pages- defending her choices and lifestyle from both naysayers and judgey people of all types, but she also stands up for others. Ms. Handler has a talent for seeing how someone else is hurting and bringing them the comfort that they need most at that time.
It is a rare gift.
"Sitting around and thinking of all the people who don't love you or don't want to hang out with you diminishes your own light. ... There are many moments in life when your own light is all you need." pg 104
As someone who is childless by choice, Ms. Handler does not use this as an excuse to be standoffish when the young people in her life need assistance. In this book, she discusses at length how she is a matriarch/patriarch to both her family and her friends' children. She sets an example for how to be and interact in the world- as a strong woman and parental figure.
I believe it is this type of behavior that builds strong communities, which uplifts everyone. Well done, Chelsea!
Highly recommended for readers who enjoy Ms. Handler's comedy but also anyone who is looking for a pick-me-up in book form. I took great courage from I'll Have What She's Having and I hope others do too.
March 31, 2025
I love Chelsea Handler so much, and it has been a minute since I read one of her books, so when I saw I'll Have What She's Having I jumped at the chance to read it. I will say this felt a bit more self helpy than her other books, but I still loved it and was more than happy to read her thoughts on life and being a woman. These essays were a mix of informational, hilarious, and thought-provoking, and I learned things about Handler that I had missed since I don’t follow celebrity gossip.
I had to listen to the audiobook since I can’t turn down an opportunity to listen to her sexy smoky voice 😅 and of course I loved it. If anyone else read her essays I am sure I would hate it, and Handler’s delivery is perfection. Her nicknames for people are the best, and I cracked up during “Cross-Country Chicanery” where she proceeded to call someone Dipsy Doodle the entire essay. 🤣 That was at the start of the book, so you can only imagine what happened from there. She did address more serious topics as well and if you want an update on what’s going on in her life, these essays will give you that plus some history.
Read this if you are looking for self-reflection, a more subdued Chelsea Handler, and self help vibes.
Audiobook Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I received a complimentary eBook and advance listening copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
I had to listen to the audiobook since I can’t turn down an opportunity to listen to her sexy smoky voice 😅 and of course I loved it. If anyone else read her essays I am sure I would hate it, and Handler’s delivery is perfection. Her nicknames for people are the best, and I cracked up during “Cross-Country Chicanery” where she proceeded to call someone Dipsy Doodle the entire essay. 🤣 That was at the start of the book, so you can only imagine what happened from there. She did address more serious topics as well and if you want an update on what’s going on in her life, these essays will give you that plus some history.
Read this if you are looking for self-reflection, a more subdued Chelsea Handler, and self help vibes.
Audiobook Rating: ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I received a complimentary eBook and advance listening copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
March 16, 2025
I truly love Chelsea Handler, I have for the past 15+ years, but this book was definitely my least favorite. Mostly a generic self help book (YOU are your own starshine! Find it within yourself!) with some funny and enjoyable stories peppered throughout.
I will still continue to watch and read everything she does.
I will still continue to watch and read everything she does.
January 6, 2025
Thanks to NetGalley and Dial Press for my ARC in exchange for my honest review. This book will be published February 25, 2025.
I was expecting a book of comedy skits but this s much more autobiographical. While there are some funny and truly outrageous events, it’s actually more of a self-help book. Chelsea has a strong desire to learn about herself via therapy, meditation and helping others. And doing drugs.
Things I learned about her:
1. She has a mind for business. At age 10, her “lemonade” stand served hard lemonade. She made enough money to upgrade herself to first class while her family flew coach.
2. She does a lot of drugs. LSD seems to be a favorite
3. She has multiple homes, including Whistler and Mallorca
4. She loves to ski
5. She loves dogs
6. She is a firm believer in family and manners and treating people nicely
She is definitely unconventional yet she has a heart of gold. I’m a fan.
I was expecting a book of comedy skits but this s much more autobiographical. While there are some funny and truly outrageous events, it’s actually more of a self-help book. Chelsea has a strong desire to learn about herself via therapy, meditation and helping others. And doing drugs.
Things I learned about her:
1. She has a mind for business. At age 10, her “lemonade” stand served hard lemonade. She made enough money to upgrade herself to first class while her family flew coach.
2. She does a lot of drugs. LSD seems to be a favorite
3. She has multiple homes, including Whistler and Mallorca
4. She loves to ski
5. She loves dogs
6. She is a firm believer in family and manners and treating people nicely
She is definitely unconventional yet she has a heart of gold. I’m a fan.
January 25, 2025
This is the first Chelsea Handler book I have read. It is vignettes of her life with 2 dogs, her love of skying, her love of an ex-boyfriend's three daughters, vacationing on Martha's Vineyard, and how therapy made her a less critical, more self aware, voice of reasonableness. I didn't know what to expect but I enjoyed the read just the same. I have a couple more of her books on my Kindle and will pull them out to read sooner not later.
March 1, 2025
As Chelsea Handler has aged, so has her comedy… and this week celebrating her 50th birthday Chelsea releases her latest book I’LL HAVE WHAT SHE’S HAVING.. a cross blend between a humor nonfiction piece; a memoir; and a self-help book.
I like to call this a nice merge of the old Chelsea and the new Chelsea… this is much more uplifting and funnier read compared to her last effort LIFE WILL BE THE DEATH OF ME… but it still strikes that self-help tone and explores a lot of her personal social and mental health issues.
I laughed a great deal and sped through it. I’m a Chelsea fan for life.
4.5 ⭐️
I like to call this a nice merge of the old Chelsea and the new Chelsea… this is much more uplifting and funnier read compared to her last effort LIFE WILL BE THE DEATH OF ME… but it still strikes that self-help tone and explores a lot of her personal social and mental health issues.
I laughed a great deal and sped through it. I’m a Chelsea fan for life.
4.5 ⭐️
March 26, 2025
Did audio version. My only disappointment is that it ended. I was enjoying it so much I could’ve used another hour or so. Very fun, engaging and thoughtful. Got some life lessons out of it. And - shouldn’t I travel more? Living a full life and spreading joy - pretty good model to follow.
April 1, 2025
I have always loved a Chelsea Handler book and that remains true with this one. It was not what I expected at all - kind of a self-help / motivational vibe with humor sprinkled in. Definitely a departure from some of her earlier books but just as delightful.
March 19, 2025
“there’d have to be a language barrier for me and a man to see eye to eye”
February 25, 2025
I have been a fan of Chelsea Handler’s since The Chelsea Handler Show appeared on E! in 2006. I was a freshman in college at the time and Chelsea’s humor, directness, and confidence appealed to me. I have followed her career since which led me to this book. Out of all her books, this is my absolute favorite. In Chelsea’s previous works, I have never seen her be as vulnerable and honest as she has been in this book. Each chapter held stories of Chelsea’s growth but also challenged me to self reflect as well. Chelsea encourages kindness, finding your happiness, and helping others. The only negative about the book is that it was hard to follow because the chapters are non-linear. It would have been helpful if the chapters were dated in order to have a frame of reference as to when they occurred.
I also loved that she gave a shout out to flight attendants in the forward. They often go overlooked and unappreciated; along with many others in the service industry.
I have no doubt that Chelsea has her seventh New York Times Bestseller on her hands here!
I also loved that she gave a shout out to flight attendants in the forward. They often go overlooked and unappreciated; along with many others in the service industry.
I have no doubt that Chelsea has her seventh New York Times Bestseller on her hands here!
April 5, 2025
I seem to always lean on Chelsea’s writing when I’m going through changes in life that feel bigger than myself; she’s helped me see the way forward numerous times with her ability to dissect the very feelings I’m experiencing, and add a layer of humility and humour to the situation. I highly recommend this book if you’re in a transition period in life.
April 11, 2025
I love Chelsea Handler and I think this is her best work. Highly recommend. So many LOL moments but also some really valuable life lessons.
April 15, 2025
My first audio book! While I am not fully sold on the audio book life, listening to this book was a fantastic way to spend a long drive. Both funny and inspiring. I am better for having listened.
April 15, 2025
I love her so much, but especially this version of her!
January 13, 2025
5 ⭐️
Thank you to netgalley and the publisher for allowing me access to this book in exchange of an honest review.
Whew.. this book! 🥺
*
Side note, I’ve read most of Chelsea’s (6 published books) and this is my favorite. It’s honest, hilarious, captivating, intriguing, transformative and it makes you ask yourself questions about how to better yourself while also reiterating how beautiful and powerful you are. It’s almost like Chelsea is “fathering” you as the reader (read to book for clarity).
*
This book made me want to be Chelsea’s bff or in the very least one of the very blessed children who get to be loved by such a kind woman.
*
She is powerful, she is compassionate, she is ever evolving, she’s a parent of thousands, she’s honest.
*
This book was very easy to read and it read as Chelsea is telling you stories while you are sitting on her balcony in Mallorca.
I couldn’t love it more!
Thank you to netgalley and the publisher for allowing me access to this book in exchange of an honest review.
Whew.. this book! 🥺
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Side note, I’ve read most of Chelsea’s (6 published books) and this is my favorite. It’s honest, hilarious, captivating, intriguing, transformative and it makes you ask yourself questions about how to better yourself while also reiterating how beautiful and powerful you are. It’s almost like Chelsea is “fathering” you as the reader (read to book for clarity).
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This book made me want to be Chelsea’s bff or in the very least one of the very blessed children who get to be loved by such a kind woman.
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She is powerful, she is compassionate, she is ever evolving, she’s a parent of thousands, she’s honest.
*
This book was very easy to read and it read as Chelsea is telling you stories while you are sitting on her balcony in Mallorca.
I couldn’t love it more!
March 28, 2025
In January of 2008, I was a recent university graduate with a Bachelor’s degree under my belt and was packing my belongings to move to a bigger city in order to start my “adult life”. Late one evening (11pm) I had a television on in the background as I was getting ready to go frolic with some friends (how the heck did we do that when we were young?! I can barely move after 7pm nowadays) but wasn’t paying attention to the screen: it was just ambient noise. The channel was on E! Entertainment and the program playing was “Chelsea Lately”. As I repeatedly walked from the bathroom to the bedroom doing my hair and makeup; something caught my eye. Host Chelsea Handler was doing a segment where she was promoting her staff on-air, leading up to Valentine’s Day, to garner love matches/dates and was showcasing their MySpace links (this was still when Facebook was an underdog) in order to contact these staff members. The young man standing next to Chelsea was her production assistant who was also a bassist in a band. He definitely had the rocker look down. I was immediately inclined to send him a message but instead of swooning; I said, “I know everyone is messaging you to chat but I actually DON’T want to talk to you. Just wanted to say you’re cute. Take care”. Well, I suppose that reverse psychology worked because we texted/chatted nonstop and soon after he was paying for my flight to Los Angeles to visit him.
During that visit, I got to visit the “Chelsea Lately” studios and meet the main gal, herself! I was so worried she would, in standard comedian style, rip me apart but she was actually incredibly sweet and I liked her a lot even getting a photo with her interrupting her workout. That visit went well and the rocker and I had a long distance relationship for a year and a half before I moved across country on September 1, 2009 to solidify our relationship (I am still here and although we are no longer together; still friends!).
After moving to Los Angeles, we returned to the “Chelsea Lately” studios and told Chelsea how she is the one responsible for our relationship and now we were living together a year and a half later. She thought this was the greatest thing ever and put us on air to talk about her matchmaker skills and how we are “living in sin”. I have a screen shot of the moment and people still bring it up to me to this day. Once again, I thought Chelsea was a doll and I will forever only have kind words to say about her.
That, ladies and gents, is my connection to multiple New York Times best-selling author, comedian, podcast host, entertainer Chelsea Handler and why I was instantly enticed to read her most recent book drop, “I’ll Have What She’s Having”.
As much as I love Chelsea Handler; I wasn’t expecting a complex, deep, masterpiece memoir and instead anticipated a gossip-y salacious Hollywood romp laced with drugs and alcohol (well, there are drugs but I’ll get to that later). Handler eschews this raunchy content and is in her mature era and I am here for it. “I’ll Have What She’s Having” is not penned in typical autobiography style and neither does it focus on Handler’s biography/childhood and timeline. The essays are thematic in scope (sometimes going forwards and backwards in chronology) and are two-fold: 1) Handler describes events from her life so that the reader does indeed learn more about her but 2)these experiences are viewed through the lens of self-growth, value-added characteristics and how readers can apply these lessons to their own lives. This isn’t a new, groundbreaking formula on the Hollywood celebrity book shelves; but Handler executes this much better than many of her peers. Handler has a lot to offer and offers this forward in a very well-written and visual way.
“I’ll Have What She’s Having is both accessible and relatable and yet addresses delicate subject matter and intricate emotions Handler has grasped from therapy so one can assume that writing the text was a healing session for herself, as well. This doesn’t mean that Handler used a condescending tone within “I’ll Have What She’s Having” as thankfully: that is not the case. Female readers can especially connect to the content and will find it helpful in a “We are not alone” – sort of way. On the same accord, Handler admits her faults and holds herself accountable to not being perfect.
The pages of “I’ll Have What She’s Having” do feature some stories/jokes that I am almost positive I heard rather recently either from interview clips/podcasts/ social media/SOMETHING; which gave me a sense of déjà vu but this didn’t weaken the overall text. Plus, even with the accolades praised upon “I’ll Have What She’s Having” for being above superficial means; Handler does mention celebrity privileges, expensive procedures, vacation homes, and drugs much too often to a point where it is irrelevant to the content. You like psychedelics: we get it. You don’t have to keep expounding on the fact. Handler is a little bit ‘Hollywood’ at the end of the day but she genuinely is thankful to everyone who helped her along the way from crew, television writers, assistants to friends, family, EVERYONE! Handler seems to have a solid head on her shoulders, nowadays.
As expected from a comedian, “I’ll Have What She’s Having” is infused with humor but Handler doesn’t try too hard and is very natural and organic with her humor making readers feel welcome and as though they are conversing with a friend. There is truly a lot to learn about Chelsea, her belief systems, vulnerabilities, hopes and dreams from “I’ll Have What She’s Having” without her being too arrogant.
Handler concludes “I’ll Have What She’s Having” in an emotionally exposed and meaningful way that summarizes the text perfectly. Who knew that Chelsea Handler was such a softie? Well, I suppose I did as I still tell people how nice she was to me almost two decades ago.
As an aside: “I’ll Have What She’s Having” doesn’t contain a section of photo plates, as typical to celebrity memoirs.
“I’ll Have What She’s Having” is a solid Hollywood memoir that is comparatively better than most contemporaries and encapsulates a breadth of emotions, lessons, outlooks and journey perspectives with a bit of humor and ‘fun’ making for a wonderful read. “I’ll Have What She’s Having is suggested for female celebrity memoir readers and fans of Chelsea Handler.
During that visit, I got to visit the “Chelsea Lately” studios and meet the main gal, herself! I was so worried she would, in standard comedian style, rip me apart but she was actually incredibly sweet and I liked her a lot even getting a photo with her interrupting her workout. That visit went well and the rocker and I had a long distance relationship for a year and a half before I moved across country on September 1, 2009 to solidify our relationship (I am still here and although we are no longer together; still friends!).
After moving to Los Angeles, we returned to the “Chelsea Lately” studios and told Chelsea how she is the one responsible for our relationship and now we were living together a year and a half later. She thought this was the greatest thing ever and put us on air to talk about her matchmaker skills and how we are “living in sin”. I have a screen shot of the moment and people still bring it up to me to this day. Once again, I thought Chelsea was a doll and I will forever only have kind words to say about her.
That, ladies and gents, is my connection to multiple New York Times best-selling author, comedian, podcast host, entertainer Chelsea Handler and why I was instantly enticed to read her most recent book drop, “I’ll Have What She’s Having”.
As much as I love Chelsea Handler; I wasn’t expecting a complex, deep, masterpiece memoir and instead anticipated a gossip-y salacious Hollywood romp laced with drugs and alcohol (well, there are drugs but I’ll get to that later). Handler eschews this raunchy content and is in her mature era and I am here for it. “I’ll Have What She’s Having” is not penned in typical autobiography style and neither does it focus on Handler’s biography/childhood and timeline. The essays are thematic in scope (sometimes going forwards and backwards in chronology) and are two-fold: 1) Handler describes events from her life so that the reader does indeed learn more about her but 2)these experiences are viewed through the lens of self-growth, value-added characteristics and how readers can apply these lessons to their own lives. This isn’t a new, groundbreaking formula on the Hollywood celebrity book shelves; but Handler executes this much better than many of her peers. Handler has a lot to offer and offers this forward in a very well-written and visual way.
“I’ll Have What She’s Having is both accessible and relatable and yet addresses delicate subject matter and intricate emotions Handler has grasped from therapy so one can assume that writing the text was a healing session for herself, as well. This doesn’t mean that Handler used a condescending tone within “I’ll Have What She’s Having” as thankfully: that is not the case. Female readers can especially connect to the content and will find it helpful in a “We are not alone” – sort of way. On the same accord, Handler admits her faults and holds herself accountable to not being perfect.
The pages of “I’ll Have What She’s Having” do feature some stories/jokes that I am almost positive I heard rather recently either from interview clips/podcasts/ social media/SOMETHING; which gave me a sense of déjà vu but this didn’t weaken the overall text. Plus, even with the accolades praised upon “I’ll Have What She’s Having” for being above superficial means; Handler does mention celebrity privileges, expensive procedures, vacation homes, and drugs much too often to a point where it is irrelevant to the content. You like psychedelics: we get it. You don’t have to keep expounding on the fact. Handler is a little bit ‘Hollywood’ at the end of the day but she genuinely is thankful to everyone who helped her along the way from crew, television writers, assistants to friends, family, EVERYONE! Handler seems to have a solid head on her shoulders, nowadays.
As expected from a comedian, “I’ll Have What She’s Having” is infused with humor but Handler doesn’t try too hard and is very natural and organic with her humor making readers feel welcome and as though they are conversing with a friend. There is truly a lot to learn about Chelsea, her belief systems, vulnerabilities, hopes and dreams from “I’ll Have What She’s Having” without her being too arrogant.
Handler concludes “I’ll Have What She’s Having” in an emotionally exposed and meaningful way that summarizes the text perfectly. Who knew that Chelsea Handler was such a softie? Well, I suppose I did as I still tell people how nice she was to me almost two decades ago.
As an aside: “I’ll Have What She’s Having” doesn’t contain a section of photo plates, as typical to celebrity memoirs.
“I’ll Have What She’s Having” is a solid Hollywood memoir that is comparatively better than most contemporaries and encapsulates a breadth of emotions, lessons, outlooks and journey perspectives with a bit of humor and ‘fun’ making for a wonderful read. “I’ll Have What She’s Having is suggested for female celebrity memoir readers and fans of Chelsea Handler.
January 11, 2025
Chelsea Handler was MY GIRL ~15 years ago when I was in high school. I thought she was so funny and loved that she was from NJ. Then, life happened and I kind of forgot about her. During COVID, I saw her on Tiktok talking about being childfree and thought to myself, “yep. she’s still my girl.”
This book is laugh out loud funny. I was belly laughing during the parts about her cross country roadtrip, the Kennedy’s and the Bush’s. I love that her dogs are her kids, shes a girls girl, and that she’d do anything for her nieces and nephews. I truly aspire to be like her, minus some of the chaos. I guess it’s time to reignite my love for her and deep dive into everything I’ve missed this past decade!
This book is laugh out loud funny. I was belly laughing during the parts about her cross country roadtrip, the Kennedy’s and the Bush’s. I love that her dogs are her kids, shes a girls girl, and that she’d do anything for her nieces and nephews. I truly aspire to be like her, minus some of the chaos. I guess it’s time to reignite my love for her and deep dive into everything I’ve missed this past decade!
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April 7, 2025There’s a story in this book where Chelsea helps a woman with her baby on a plane. I listened to this book and when I heard this story, I was driving to volunteer to take care of children with various disabilities for a night while their parents have a few hours alone. I did not want to do this for a lot of reasons! Mostly I didn’t know what it would entail and I don’t spend a lot of time with kids haha. But as I listened to Chelsea talking about this woman I realized I was about to do the same thing. I was about to inconvenience myself to help parents who deal with SO much daily and I would only be giving up like 4 hours to do it. It lowkey changed my perspective/ attitude and I realized I can and should give more with my actions even if I don’t think I know what to do. That night wasn’t an inconvenience either!! I had a great time hanging out with a sweet quiet little girl who just wanted to play playdoh and watch a movie. Anyway I love Chelsea and her attitude about life a true diva legend!!!!
March 25, 2025
I have read all of Chelsea’s books and this is by far my favorite. Her rawness and vulnerability when talking about her journey and her commitment to her family is something we don’t hear enough from public figures. This book was the perfect combination of laughing until I cried and shedding tears from relating to struggles, heartbreak, and the love of a parent. I feel like Chelsea’s previous books almost had the prerequisite of liking her boldness and irreverence. I’ll Have What She’s Having has a broader appeal in my opinion. It is a great, easy read and I highly recommend it.
April 5, 2025
Did the audiobook of this, and it’s just like listening to one of her stand up sets, of which I’ve done many times. Her stories are fearless and unapologetic, and I love that she has zero guilt or apology about being an unmarried, childless woman. She wears that like a badge of honor, and that allows her to show up for other people in so many ways. A funny, easy listen to take you away from the crap of the world. 3.5 stars ⭐️
March 19, 2025
I’ve loved Chelsea Handler, her books and her hilarious stories since “My Horizontal Life” and her Chelsea Lately days. This book is a bit different from her others, veers much more on the self-help side. Beautiful stories with a throughline of friendship, family, love, and investing into your own growth. Not as funny as her other books, but quite lovely!
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