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The Secret Life of Bees by Sue Monk Kidd
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it was ok
bookshelves: thought-provoking

I confess to being a little hesitant going into this book. It is, after all, that most cliched and irritating of literati faves: a coming-of-age story set in the American South. Lily, a motherless 14-year-old girl lives with her bigoted abusive father on a peach farm in South Carolina. Her goals involve befriending black people and finding information about her long-dead mother. Just summarizing this thing inspires the eye-rolling.

But the book does have some saving graces. First, the writing is incredible. Voice, pacing, transition, and word choice are all stellar. On a micro level, Ms Kidd is magnificent. For instance, despite the predictability of telling such a tale from the young girl's point of view, I thought the decision worked here. Lily herself is absolutely charming. She is completely honest with the reader, often to her own detriment. If the story had been written from anyone else's point of view, Lily would have been pathetic: abused motherless little girl who harbors way too much guilt and angst. This book could have gone off the deep end real easy. But Lily is a survivor and an optimist, and her naive faith drives this book.

Mostly. As you might expect in a story of this sort, there was plenty of menstruation angst, boyfriend nervousness, junior cheerleader tryouts, and the requisite abusive father. All of these things were painful to read. However, something that made this book somewhat fresh was the strong theme of race. For a nice chunk of the book, Lily is on the lam with her black housekeeper Rosaleen, traipsing through 1960s South Carolina after busting Rosaleen out of jail for offending some white guys. I was struck with the parallels to Mark Twain, only here the adventure was overlaid -- sometimes heavy handedly -- with a female sensibility. Nice. In fact, all of the embedded feminism was well done. Recurrent natural images of moonlight and water were beautiful and deliciously pagan. The author went to a lot of trouble to create a new religion just for girls: part Catholicism, part goddess-centered paganism, part ancestor worship. The religious aspect was interesting, but not as compelling as the author wanted it to be. I could tell she was trying to impress me with the notion of Mary as a goddess protector. But I didn't buy it. Lily bought it, though, and that was enough to keep me reading.

The whole book was a quest for independence, I think. To find confidence and drive within, without always needing that crutch of others' acceptance. The book almost achieved that. But it gave in at the last, to deliver a happy ending.

Now that I think about it, much of the book was cliche. But it was also a good read. The strength of the narrative voice saved it, and it had some absolutely gut-twisting parts. The line beginning "She was all I ever wanted" .... both painful and breathtaking.
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Started Reading
April 1, 2004 – Finished Reading
July 11, 2007 – Shelved
March 2, 2008 – Shelved as: thought-provoking

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Mystique Could not have said it better. I was about to write a review, but why? Yours states everything succinctly.


message 2: by Liz (new) - rated it 1 star

Liz Cliche...that is EXACTLY how I have described this book.


Ginny Golly, I enjoyed your review as much as I did the book!

Did you read why SMK caved in and delivered a happy ending? (see interview question #9)


Julie Craig-muller I agree--your review is perfect. Thank you.


message 5: by Katrina (new)

Katrina I suppose I agree with some of the things you've said about the book; however, I really enjoyed it. It might be because of my young age (15). But because of this it really helped me relate to the book. I loved the idea of her going away and starting a whole new life and growing as a person. Whats so wrong with cliches?


JennyGrace  M. Dolly I think you are sooooo wrong. This book was a beautiful book. my favorite thing was the balck women, they present such loving motherly characters, and I love how they protect Lily from her father.


Angelique Brilliantly put!


Cynthia I actually liked the movie better than the book (that never happens!), and for one primary reason: no drawn-out rituals over the female idol that put them all in a lather. *yawn*


Laura I don't think her goal was to "befriend black people." It was a byproduct of her greater goal to escape her abusive father and learn more about her mother. Secondly, sometimes things are cliche because they are accurate. I think this book (overall) represents well the time it depicts. But as for the writing style, I totally agree. Beautiful.


message 10: by M (new) - added it

M fantastic review- great points


message 11: by Linda (new)

Linda Finally, someone said it out loud...what's wrong with Southern fiction today. Thanks, now there's no need for me to read the book.


message 12: by Mark (new) - rated it 4 stars

Mark Nicely put. Maybe I'm not the cynical old bugger I pretend to be because I put all those things aside even when I could feel every button being pushed.


Lauren  Librarian Your review is perfect. I agree with everything you've said. The thing I don't understand is that you still gave it two stars. A book that has beautiful writing in spite of a overdone theme gets two stars?


kisha I agree with lauren valentino...his review was on point but it seemed like it would have been a 3 star I also agree with laura sometime cliche's are necessary. but good review just needed one more star


message 15: by Tee (new) - rated it 4 stars

Tee Who of you has been deserted by a mother, abused by a father, tossed to the wind and survived?


message 16: by Mary (new) - rated it 5 stars

Mary Obviously, you are not motherless, and have not been abused.


Sonya Murphy I have a some issues with your review. Your descriptions of the "cliches" didn't sit well with me. The only "menstruation angst" I remember is when she uses it to get or avoid something because men are so uncomfortable with feminin issues. The cheerleading tryouts was mentioned once and only briefly. As far as the boyfriend nervousness, hello, the main character is 15yrs old. What 15yr old girl doesn't have "boyfriend nervousness". It almost seems like you skimmed through the book instead of really reading it. She stays with the Boatwrights because she thinks that is where she will find out more about her mother. Not because they are black. Then I see another reviewer decide not to read the book because of it. For shame I say, if there is one thing I have learned from reviews, one persons trash is another persons treasure. Find out for yourself. I like to see what other people think of books that I've already read, but I never base my decisions on others opinions.


message 18: by Beth (new) - rated it 5 stars

Beth Clearly there are some women here who need to read Barbara G. Walker's THE WOMAN'S ENCYCLOPEDIA OF MYTHS AND SECRETS and learn that pooh-poohing the concept of a strong female (Mother Nature) deity is part and parcel of our society's very 17th-18th-19th-20th century misogyny. We women can be all too eager to embrace christianity's traditional disrespect of nature and women of whatever color -- sad. And indicative of the denigrated, declining state of our environment and society.


Misha Thanks - just what I would write in a review of this book, if I were to think about it and come up with something well-thought-out. I appreciate you doing it for me!


Kassia I had to read it for school this summer. I feel like I would've liked it more if I didn't have to annotate it and if the other book I had read wasn't so good... but I have to say you pretty accurately describe how I felt about the book! Nice review.


Kelli Hahaha "her goal" "to befriend black people" ... That wasn't a goal it was a result of her good and fair character.


Megan Cui I feel like two stars a little bit harsh for this book. I'm not sure where I diverged, but I saw this story as an extremely realistic one of a girl in the South who thought and spoke and daydreamed about things that a girl her age should. Maybe it's the age difference, but I think that you should give this book another shot and try imagining the situation. Visualize it-- it always makes a story truly come to life.


message 23: by Jovon (new)

Jovon This book sucks my face


message 24: by Alli (new) - rated it 5 stars

Alli ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️


message 25: by Taylor (new) - added it

Taylor Ms Kidd? Your review stinks of condescension.


Julsz I fully agree on the religion part. Also about the chliché part although any other take on her emotional struggle wouldn'y be true. Sometimes there are chlichés for a reason. Initially all children who are/feel denied of their parents love feel the same there are just different coping mechanisms.


message 27: by Jo (new) - rated it 3 stars

Jo Some nasty comments here


Shreela Sen Hah ! You loved the book too much for those two stars 😃 your review reads like a solid 4*!


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