Nicole Austin's Reviews > Kirby's Lessons for Falling [in Love]

Thank you Netgalley and Harperalley for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!

Laura Gao’s “Kirby’s Lessons for Falling (In Love)” is a heartfelt YA graphic novel that focuses on romance and self-discovery with an honest look at identity and belonging. At its core, the story follows Kirby Tan, a rock-climbing prodigy whose world shifts after a falling injury forces her to step away from her sport. While recovering, she joins the school newspaper’s astrology column, where she’s paired with the outgoing and opinionated Bex. What starts as an unexpected partnership soon turns into something deeper, as Kirby navigates her growing feelings for Bex while struggling with the fear of coming out to her religious family.

Gao excels at capturing the highs and lows of high school life. The humor is sharp, with witty dialogue and small visual details—like club posters and exaggerated facial expressions—that bring the world to life. The supporting cast of queer friends adds warmth and authenticity, making the friendships feel both genuine and heartfelt. The slow-burn romance between Kirby and Bex is sweet, though it leans into some predictable YA tropes, such as jealousy and a third-act breakup. While the chemistry between them may not resonate with every reader, their dynamic offers a compelling contrast—Kirby’s cautious approach to life versus Bex’s unabashed confidence.

The story also tackles heavier themes, particularly around queerness and religion. Kirby’s struggle with coming out is complicated by her relationship with her widowed mother and the lingering impact of her grandfather’s stroke, which happened shortly after she came out to him. The story thoughtfully explores how religious spaces can be both a source of comfort and pain for queer individuals, as well as the judgment that can come from both inside and outside those communities.

While “Kirby’s Lessons for Falling (In Love)” is full of heart and important themes, some elements feel a bit underdeveloped. The sports aspect and the astrology club—both key parts of Kirby’s life—could have used more focus. The storytelling occasionally feels rushed or unclear, especially in the romance’s progression.

Despite these minor flaws, the story shines as a touching exploration of grief, identity, and the courage it takes to be yourself. The ending, though bittersweet, leaves you with a sense of hope and belonging. Perfect for middle-grade and teen readers, “Kirby’s Lessons for Falling (In Love)” is a charming, queer-positive read that will resonate with anyone who has ever struggled to carve out their own place in the world.