Practicing the Way Quotes

“For those of us who desire to follow Jesus, here is the reality we must turn and face: If we’re not being intentionally formed by Jesus himself, then it’s highly likely we are being unintentionally formed by someone or something else.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“There simply is no better way, truth, or life to be found than that of Jesus.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The single most important question is, Are we becoming more loving? Not, Are we becoming more biblically educated? Or practicing more spiritual disciplines? Or more involved in church? Those are all good things, but not the most important thing.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“For Jesus, salvation is less about getting you into heaven and more about getting heaven into you.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Following Jesus is not a three-step formula: be with him, become like him, and so on. But there is a sequence. It is not a program but a progression. First, you come and be with Jesus; gradually you start to become like him; eventually, it's like you can't help it - you begin to do the kinds of things he did in the world. We see this progression in the stories of the original disciples: They spent months or possibly years just following him around Israel and sitting at his feet. Very slowly they began to change, and eventually, he "sent them out" to preach.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become Like Him, Do As He Did

“Jesus isn’t asking you to do something you’re not already doing. All of us are abiding. The question isn’t, Are you abiding? It’s, What are you abiding in?”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Come, follow me.[11] Contrary to what many assume, Jesus did not invite people to convert to Christianity. He didn’t even call people to become Christians (keep reading…); he invited people to apprentice under him into a whole new way of living. To be transformed. My thesis is simple: Transformation is possible if we are willing to arrange our lives around the practices, rhythms, and truths that Jesus himself did, which will open our lives to God’s power to change. Said another way, we can be transformed if we are willing to apprentice ourselves to Jesus.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The undirected mind tends toward chaos.” The psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi called this phenomenon “psychic entropy.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“It’s the very things we run from, avoid at all costs, dread, medicate, and deny that hold the secret to our liberation. These unhappy times of great emotional pain, in a beautifully redemptive turn, have the potential—if we open to God in them—to transform us into grounded, deeply joyful people. Suffering is sadness leaving the body.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The French philosopher Jacques Ellul once compared the Western obsession with “technique” to magic in the Middle Ages. It’s a modern form of superstition that’s all about trying to control what we cannot possibly control.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“You can’t follow Jesus alone. Not “shouldn’t”; can’t. It’s not even an option. Jesus didn’t have a disciple; he had disciples, plural. He called people to apprentice under him in community.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The problem is: Human beings resist facing reality. The human capacity for self-deception is staggering. But when it comes to sin, ignorance is not bliss. It’s a cancer metastasizing through our bloodstreams. The diagnosis is essential to the cure. Over a millennia and a half ago, Evagrius Ponticus said, “The beginning of salvation is to condemn oneself.” He was just saying that until we name our sin and open our wound to God, we can’t be saved from it.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Without solitude it is virtually impossible to live a spiritual life.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Paul called it prayer “without ceasing.”[13] The Spanish Carmelite Saint John of the Cross called it “silent love” and urged us to “remain in loving attention on God.” Madame Guyon—the French mystic—called it a “continuous inner act of abiding.” The old Quakers called it “centering down,”[14] as if abiding was getting in touch with the bedrock of all reality. The Jesuit spiritual director Jean-Pierre de Caussade called it “the sacrament of the present moment,” as if each moment with God is its own Eucharist, its own movable feast.[15] A. W. Tozer called it “habitual, conscious communion” and said, “At the heart of the Christian message is God Himself waiting for His redeemed children to push in to conscious awareness of His presence.”[16] Dallas Willard loved to call it “the with-God life.”[17] So many saints, with so many names for life with Jesus. But my undisputed favorite is from a monk named Brother Lawrence, who called this “the practice of the presence of God.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The deeper question here is, In whom are you trusting? Who (or what) do you put your faith in to show you the way to the life you desire? It’s my conviction that contrary to what we hear, living by faith isn’t a Christian thing or even a religious thing; it’s a human thing—we all live by faith. The question isn’t, Am I going to believe? It’s, Who or what am I going to believe in? Meaning, Who or what am I going to entrust my life to? Do I really want to trust myself—or any other human, for that matter? We creatures who seem to have gotten ourselves into the very mess we’re trying to fix?”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Run through your mental Rolodex of people past eighty: Most of them are either gracious, happy, grateful, patient, loving, self-giving people you know, just happy to be alive and sitting in the same room with you, or the most bitter, manipulative, spiteful people you know, oozing emotional poison into their family lines and reveling in others' pain. Sure, some are in the middle of the bell curve, but most are noticeably to one side.
That's because they've spent almost a century becoming a person. Being formed.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become Like Him, Do As He Did

“So many Christians simply have no idea of the staggering immensity of God's love for them and of that love's power to transform them into people of love, as well as bring them great happiness and lasting peace. If they knew, they would undoubtedly do whatever it takes to make time to be with him. Unfortunately, many of us still view following Jesus as a means to an end - a ticket to heaven, to nice feelings, to a successful, upwardly mobile life, and so on.

We still don't get it: He's the end.

The reward for following Jesus is Jesus.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become Like Him, Do As He Did

“Contemplative prayer isn't looking to get anything from God; it's just looking at God. "I look at Him, He looks at me, and we are happy." Few of us even realize this type of prayer is a possibility. It's this deeper layer of prayer that I find both most challenging and most rewarding. Challenging not because it's unpleasant (the opposite, in fact) but because it requires the very capacity of which our world schemes to rob me: attention.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become Like Him, Do As He Did

“There are no accidental saints. You can't just slip your hand up at the end of a sermon. It's a high bar of entry: It will require you to reorder your entire life around following Jesus as your undisputed top priority, over your job, your money, your reputation - over everything. Yet all these things will find their rightful place once integrated into a life of apprenticeship.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become Like Him, Do As He Did

“Powerful forces have a vested interest in our believing the myth (and it is a myth) that we are following no one at all. Many of the cultural liturgies that indoctrinate us daily - "Be true to yourself," - can be traced back to sources with a nefarious agenda. If "they" (whether multinational corporations, politicians, anti-democratic government agents, marketing departments, influencers who just want more followers, etc., etc.) can make us believe that each person is a blank slate, just following the inner compass of our "authentic self" in an upward march to happiness, then they can keep us blind to all the ways we've been "discipled" - formed and manipulated - by their desires.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus, Become Like Him, Do As He Did

“Amusing ourselves to death,” as the social critic Neil Postman called it, has never been more convenient.[3] You can disappear into the black hole of Netflix, become a workaholic in pursuit of riches or fame, or simply “eat, drink, and be merry” in the adult playground of the modern city. Western culture is arguably built around the denial of death through the coping mechanism of distraction. As Ronald Rolheiser put it, “We are distracting ourselves into spiritual oblivion.”[4]”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“After all, the opposite of contemplation is not action but reaction. It’s not a life that is active—doing good in the world, working hard, serving those in need. That’s exactly what you would expect to come from a life of abiding: fruit. The opposite of contemplation is a life that is reactive—getting sucked into the tyranny of the urgent instead of the important, chasing the latest fad, wasting our fleeting lives climbing some illusory corporate ladder, hurrying from one distraction to the next…”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Apprenticeship to Jesus is about turning your body into a temple, a place of overlap between heaven and earth—an advance sign of what one day Jesus will do for the entire cosmos, when heaven and earth are at long last reunited as one. This is the single most extraordinary opportunity in the entire universe: to let your body become God’s home. And it’s set before you every single day.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“John Wimber, the founder of the Vineyard Church, came to faith in Jesus in his twenties out of a wild background in the L.A. music scene. He read the Gospels and Acts and was floored by the stories of healings and prophecy and the rest. Then he came to church, where he saw none of it. “When do we get to do the stuff?” he asked.[41] “Do the stuff” has since entered the charismatic lexicon as code for operating in the manifestations of the Spirit we read of in 1 Corinthians 12—prophecy, words of wisdom and knowledge, healings, miracles, and more. When you combine telling others about Jesus with a prophetic word, experience of healing, or insight no one could know apart from the Spirit (what Paul seems to mean by “a word of knowledge”), the result can be electric. Of course, there are lots of ways to do this terribly, but with the right training, we can learn to do this in a down-to-earth, calm, loving way. More”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“Work at its best is an expression of love. As the poet Kahlil Gibran put it, “Work is love made visible.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“In his analogy, sin was like a sickness and he was the doctor. Repentance wasn’t just pleading for mercy before a judge; it was opening your wounding to a physician. Based on this line, ancient Christians called Jesus “the doctor of the soul.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“But at its worst, this is laziness, pure and simple, because it’s far easier to go to church once a week chasing a spiritual high and angle for a download from heaven than to do the daily, unglamorous work of discipleship.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The genius of Jesus’ ethical teaching was that you cannot keep the law by trying not to break the law. You cannot become more loving by trying to become more loving, no matter how much self-effort you bring to the table. You have to be transformed in your inner person, or what Jesus called “the heart.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“The question Saint Benedict would have us sit with is this: Who am I becoming?”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.

“There is simply no way to follow Jesus without unhurrying your life.”
― John Mark Comer, Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.