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This is a novel of a woman saying goodbye to her family. It is an archive of this goodbye, organized into small bites – the woman is a professional archivist, and it’s in her nature. Within this tight structure, as emotions ebb and flow, pain bubbles to the surface.
The family created was a foursome: a mother and a father, a boy and a girl. The girl was hers, the boy his, when work drew the couple together: both the mother and the father told an overlooked part of each story by focusing on the sounds of a life. I found this fascinating, and started listening harder to my days, started remembering the sounds of events.
The story is of a road trip across the US, after which the family will return to a life in pairs – one parent with one child. The road trip has a purpose and an end. The man wants to end up in Arizona to pursue a sound documentary on the lost tribes of The Apache. Throughout the road trip, we get to “hear” his stories of this community when he entertains the children. We witness how the children respond, the children who don’t yet know what’s coming. The very thing that drew their parents together is now pulling them apart.
The creative pull on these characters is more powerful than the need to preserve a family. Luiselli taps into the truth of that choice. The story, told from the POV of the woman, is not about whether she should stay or go: it’s about how painful it is to be pulled apart by a force greater than her will from the ones she loves. Add to that her work – to help children at the US-Mexican border reunite with their parents – and what’s highlighted are questions of privilege and choice, the damage done to children through separation, and the human ability to adapt no matter how much it hurts.
The last part of the book is told from the perspective of the young boy. He and his sister run away, get lost, and take a kind of road trip of their own, apart from their drifting parents. Here the book takes on a slightly different tone, perhaps a bit warmer to the mom’s archival cool.
Overall, the story asks, when two good parents make something good together, does that need to continue in its living form to matter, or can it, too, be archived and then held sacred?
4.5
The family created was a foursome: a mother and a father, a boy and a girl. The girl was hers, the boy his, when work drew the couple together: both the mother and the father told an overlooked part of each story by focusing on the sounds of a life. I found this fascinating, and started listening harder to my days, started remembering the sounds of events.
The story is of a road trip across the US, after which the family will return to a life in pairs – one parent with one child. The road trip has a purpose and an end. The man wants to end up in Arizona to pursue a sound documentary on the lost tribes of The Apache. Throughout the road trip, we get to “hear” his stories of this community when he entertains the children. We witness how the children respond, the children who don’t yet know what’s coming. The very thing that drew their parents together is now pulling them apart.
The creative pull on these characters is more powerful than the need to preserve a family. Luiselli taps into the truth of that choice. The story, told from the POV of the woman, is not about whether she should stay or go: it’s about how painful it is to be pulled apart by a force greater than her will from the ones she loves. Add to that her work – to help children at the US-Mexican border reunite with their parents – and what’s highlighted are questions of privilege and choice, the damage done to children through separation, and the human ability to adapt no matter how much it hurts.
The last part of the book is told from the perspective of the young boy. He and his sister run away, get lost, and take a kind of road trip of their own, apart from their drifting parents. Here the book takes on a slightly different tone, perhaps a bit warmer to the mom’s archival cool.
Overall, the story asks, when two good parents make something good together, does that need to continue in its living form to matter, or can it, too, be archived and then held sacred?
4.5
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Thanks so much, Bonnie, I really appreciate that!
I can understand why she may not be for you – she is a bit cold. The good news is, you can borrow my copy if you want. :)

That is good news. Thank you! I still have a pile of books you leant me. This is incentive to get to those! Have you read the Story of My Teeth? Coldness was not the problem at all. A pretentious post-modernism was the problem (and I think we can all agree my bar for pretention is pretty high.)

I saw that when I read your review (I've not read anything else by her). I didn't find this pretentious at all, but I saw that someone on your thread did. I'd love for you to point out what bothers you in this one, if you have that same experience. When I finished this, I felt unsure of who would love it as much as I did. Sometimes you just know, sometimes you don't, right? This wasn't my usual go-to read.
No pressure on whatever books you have of mine that you haven't read.

You are so sweet. Thanks Jennifer, for your patience. I will really make an effort to read the books you sent my way (I am keeping track, they are separated from the herd since it is easy for books to get lost in the crowd in this apartment.) I will report back on this when I get to it. Hope you do the same if you read The Story of My Teeth!

Really, no urgency, nor homework assignments. Read what you want, when you want. I think I commented on your review – I will not be reading that anytime soon, Bonnie, if ever.




Thanks so much, Fionnuala! I actually read your review last night, and was so impressed! I got pulled away, but want to reread it because I felt you highlighted things I'd neglected that were essential. I really appreciate your comment. :D

Thanks so much, Katia! I enjoyed your review, too, and felt you also got to the heart of things. There's so much here! I'm curious to read something else of hers, too.

Career is indeed tied to ego and identity, certainly in my NYC bubble it has always been. But the pull here felt more essential to the nature of both adults, like a creative will that was coursing through their very being and could not be helped. That's what made it so powerful for me, Laura – that sense that what's true for us just unfolds, despite what's in our hearts and minds. We know the woman wholeheartedly believes in the strength of family from her drive (both literal and figurative), and yet cannot fight the natural force of her own separation...

Ok - well, definitely worth reading then - thanks!


It was heartbreaking, Justin, with lots of life-affirming moments, too. You might like this one – are you thinking of giving it a try?

It's smart, and definitely from an authentic female perspective, Laura.

You are very welcome, Stephanie! Feel free to message me if you want to discuss it, or just to let me know if you've written a review. I hope you get something out of it, there's a lot there, but it's more contemplative than fast-paced.




And what a great question you ask: Overall, the story asks, when two good parents make something good together, does that need to continue in its living form to matter, or can it, too, be archived and then held sacred?
Did you come up with any kind of answer based on what you read?


Yes ma'am, yes I am. I'm always intrigued by people's thought processes as they work through their real life's direction.


Ilse, thank you so much, I really appreciate your perspective! I am interested, this was my first work of Luiselli's, and I'd love to read her nonfiction as a supplement. We always carry those who were with us, and the loss of their presence becomes a huge part of us as well...

Thank you, Gaurav! I think we all have those books we forget about until a reminder floats our way. I hope you find this a rich read, whenever you get to it :)

