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Lost Children Archive by Valeria Luiselli
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it was amazing

This is a novel of a woman saying goodbye to her family. It is an archive of this goodbye, organized into small bites – the woman is a professional archivist, and it’s in her nature. Within this tight structure, as emotions ebb and flow, pain bubbles to the surface.

The family created was a foursome: a mother and a father, a boy and a girl. The girl was hers, the boy his, when work drew the couple together: both the mother and the father told an overlooked part of each story by focusing on the sounds of a life. I found this fascinating, and started listening harder to my days, started remembering the sounds of events.

The story is of a road trip across the US, after which the family will return to a life in pairs – one parent with one child. The road trip has a purpose and an end. The man wants to end up in Arizona to pursue a sound documentary on the lost tribes of The Apache. Throughout the road trip, we get to “hear” his stories of this community when he entertains the children. We witness how the children respond, the children who don’t yet know what’s coming. The very thing that drew their parents together is now pulling them apart.

The creative pull on these characters is more powerful than the need to preserve a family. Luiselli taps into the truth of that choice. The story, told from the POV of the woman, is not about whether she should stay or go: it’s about how painful it is to be pulled apart by a force greater than her will from the ones she loves. Add to that her work – to help children at the US-Mexican border reunite with their parents – and what’s highlighted are questions of privilege and choice, the damage done to children through separation, and the human ability to adapt no matter how much it hurts.

The last part of the book is told from the perspective of the young boy. He and his sister run away, get lost, and take a kind of road trip of their own, apart from their drifting parents. Here the book takes on a slightly different tone, perhaps a bit warmer to the mom’s archival cool.

Overall, the story asks, when two good parents make something good together, does that need to continue in its living form to matter, or can it, too, be archived and then held sacred?

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Reading Progress

August 27, 2019 – Shelved
August 27, 2019 – Shelved as: to-read
February 7, 2021 – Started Reading
February 12, 2021 –
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February 16, 2021 –
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68.57% "I’m in love with this book. The writing manages to be both efficient and lush. How did she do it!?"
February 17, 2021 – Finished Reading

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message 1: by Bonnie G. (new)

Bonnie G. Beautiful review, Jennifer. I have heard good things about this book before, but I am scarred by my experience reading The Story of My Teeth, which I hated. Perhaps it is time to get over it and try Luiselli again.


Jennifer Welsh Bonnie G. wrote: "Beautiful review, Jennifer. I have heard good things about this book before, but I am scarred by my experience reading The Story of My Teeth, which I hated. Perhaps it is time to get over it and tr..."

Thanks so much, Bonnie, I really appreciate that!
I can understand why she may not be for you – she is a bit cold. The good news is, you can borrow my copy if you want. :)


message 3: by Bonnie G. (new)

Bonnie G. Jennifer wrote: "Bonnie G. wrote: "Beautiful review, Jennifer. I have heard good things about this book before, but I am scarred by my experience reading The Story of My Teeth, which I hated. Perhaps it is time to ..."

That is good news. Thank you! I still have a pile of books you leant me. This is incentive to get to those! Have you read the Story of My Teeth? Coldness was not the problem at all. A pretentious post-modernism was the problem (and I think we can all agree my bar for pretention is pretty high.)


Jennifer Welsh Bonnie G. wrote: "Jennifer wrote: "Bonnie G. wrote: "Beautiful review, Jennifer. I have heard good things about this book before, but I am scarred by my experience reading The Story of My Teeth, which I hated. Perha..."

I saw that when I read your review (I've not read anything else by her). I didn't find this pretentious at all, but I saw that someone on your thread did. I'd love for you to point out what bothers you in this one, if you have that same experience. When I finished this, I felt unsure of who would love it as much as I did. Sometimes you just know, sometimes you don't, right? This wasn't my usual go-to read.
No pressure on whatever books you have of mine that you haven't read.


message 5: by Bonnie G. (new)

Bonnie G. Jennifer wrote: "Bonnie G. wrote: "Jennifer wrote: "Bonnie G. wrote: "Beautiful review, Jennifer. I have heard good things about this book before, but I am scarred by my experience reading The Story of My Teeth, wh..."

You are so sweet. Thanks Jennifer, for your patience. I will really make an effort to read the books you sent my way (I am keeping track, they are separated from the herd since it is easy for books to get lost in the crowd in this apartment.) I will report back on this when I get to it. Hope you do the same if you read The Story of My Teeth!


Jennifer Welsh Bonnie G. wrote: "Jennifer wrote: "Bonnie G. wrote: "Jennifer wrote: "Bonnie G. wrote: "Beautiful review, Jennifer. I have heard good things about this book before, but I am scarred by my experience reading The Stor..."

Really, no urgency, nor homework assignments. Read what you want, when you want. I think I commented on your review – I will not be reading that anytime soon, Bonnie, if ever.


message 7: by Fionnuala (new) - added it

Fionnuala Such a well-worded review, Jennifer. And you got right to the central irony of the narrative: the woman working so hard to unite children with their parents yet who can't do the same for her own.


Katia N Wonderful review, Jennifer. I think you’ve got to the essence of this story, the thing that makes it so poignant- she knows they will be separating, but the children do not. And the author is trying to balance those two perspectives on the background of the bigger world… Also I had the same feeling as you about the sounds. They’ve become more pronounced while I was reading. Thank you for reminding me about this book. I hope she will write something new soon.


message 9: by Laura (new) - added it

Laura Hmm - From the perspective of age it seems that career especially and unfortunately for women is very much tied up with ego and identity - patent should sacrifice career choices for the sake of children and staying together - so long as the couple can make it work as a couple. Our current societies so strongly advocate the importance of career for women now as much as men that it is almost inevitable that children will suffer more. But yes v relevant subject choice - must get to Luiselli.


Jennifer Welsh Fionnuala wrote: "Such a well-worded review, Jennifer. And you got right to the central irony of the narrative: the woman working so hard to unite children with their parents yet who can't do the same for her own."

Thanks so much, Fionnuala! I actually read your review last night, and was so impressed! I got pulled away, but want to reread it because I felt you highlighted things I'd neglected that were essential. I really appreciate your comment. :D


Jennifer Welsh Katia wrote: "Wonderful review, Jennifer. I think you’ve got to the essence of this story, the thing that makes it so poignant- she knows they will be separating, but the children do not. And the author is tryin..."

Thanks so much, Katia! I enjoyed your review, too, and felt you also got to the heart of things. There's so much here! I'm curious to read something else of hers, too.


Left Coast Justin Sounds heartbreaking, whether the writing is clinical or not. Great review.


Jennifer Welsh Laura wrote: "Hmm - From the perspective of age it seems that career especially and unfortunately for women is very much tied up with ego and identity - patent should sacrifice career choices for the sake of chi..."

Career is indeed tied to ego and identity, certainly in my NYC bubble it has always been. But the pull here felt more essential to the nature of both adults, like a creative will that was coursing through their very being and could not be helped. That's what made it so powerful for me, Laura – that sense that what's true for us just unfolds, despite what's in our hearts and minds. We know the woman wholeheartedly believes in the strength of family from her drive (both literal and figurative), and yet cannot fight the natural force of her own separation...


message 14: by Laura (new) - added it

Laura Jennifer wrote: "Laura wrote: "Hmm - From the perspective of age it seems that career especially and unfortunately for women is very much tied up with ego and identity - patent should sacrifice career choices for t..."

Ok - well, definitely worth reading then - thanks!


message 15: by Stephanie ~~ (new) - added it

Stephanie ~~ Oh my goodness, I have to read this. I had a friend mail a copy a few weeks ago, and I've been swamped. Thank you for sharing your review. Honestly. Thank you soooo much.


Jennifer Welsh Left Coast Justin wrote: "Sounds heartbreaking, whether the writing is clinical or not. Great review."

It was heartbreaking, Justin, with lots of life-affirming moments, too. You might like this one – are you thinking of giving it a try?


Jennifer Welsh Laura wrote: "Jennifer wrote: "Laura wrote: "Hmm - From the perspective of age it seems that career especially and unfortunately for women is very much tied up with ego and identity - patent should sacrifice car..."

It's smart, and definitely from an authentic female perspective, Laura.


Jennifer Welsh Stephanie ~~ wrote: "Oh my goodness, I have to read this. I had a friend mail a copy a few weeks ago, and I've been swamped. Thank you for sharing your review. Honestly. Thank you soooo much."

You are very welcome, Stephanie! Feel free to message me if you want to discuss it, or just to let me know if you've written a review. I hope you get something out of it, there's a lot there, but it's more contemplative than fast-paced.


message 19: by Ilse (new) - added it

Ilse Jennifer, I very much enjoyed reading your moving review of this extraordinary book - your last paragraph is such a beautiful reflection imagining the future of the boy and the girl once their parents go their own way. I entirely second Fionnuala and Katia on how astutely you capture the heartrending contradiction between the woman's efforts for the 'lost children' and her own family falling apart. If you are interested in facts and figures on the children crossing the border and Luiselli's translation work in the procedure, I thought her Tell Me How It Ends: An Essay in Forty Questions quite enlightening, especially paired with this book.


message 20: by Gaurav (new) - added it

Gaurav Great review, Jennifer. I have the book om my TBR for a fairly long time, and there could be only a few better reminder then your erudite write-up to red it. Thanks for sharing it :)


message 21: by Fran (new)

Fran Hawthorne I'm fascinated by your comment that you " started listening harder to my days, started remembering the sounds of events." What an amazing book, to prompt you to do that. And what a wonderful concept. Have you been able to listen that way? If I can stop my brain from constantly thinking, I'd love to try that sort of listening, too.


message 22: by Lisa (new) - added it

Lisa I cannot begin to imagine this mother's pain, choosing to leave one of her children behind with the man she loves while taking her other child far away to do the work that gives her life meaning.

And what a great question you ask: Overall, the story asks, when two good parents make something good together, does that need to continue in its living form to matter, or can it, too, be archived and then held sacred?

Did you come up with any kind of answer based on what you read?


message 23: by Antoinette (new)

Antoinette Excellent review, Jennifer! I’ve never read a book that explores a division in a family to accommodate each partner’s work/life choices. Sounds very intriguing!


Left Coast Justin You might like this one – are you thinking of giving it a try?

Yes ma'am, yes I am. I'm always intrigued by people's thought processes as they work through their real life's direction.


message 25: by Stephanie ~~ (new) - added it

Stephanie ~~ Following up on your comment about my comment (lol), contemplative is my jam. Completely. So I've had my favorite bookstore (Greenlight Bookstore in New Jersey) send me a copy of this beauty. Will definitely update you. 💙


Jennifer Welsh Ilse wrote: "Jennifer, I very much enjoyed reading your moving review of this extraordinary book - your last paragraph is such a beautiful reflection imagining the future of the boy and the girl once their pare..."

Ilse, thank you so much, I really appreciate your perspective! I am interested, this was my first work of Luiselli's, and I'd love to read her nonfiction as a supplement. We always carry those who were with us, and the loss of their presence becomes a huge part of us as well...


Jennifer Welsh Gaurav wrote: "Great review, Jennifer. I have the book om my TBR for a fairly long time, and there could be only a few better reminder then your erudite write-up to red it. Thanks for sharing it :)"

Thank you, Gaurav! I think we all have those books we forget about until a reminder floats our way. I hope you find this a rich read, whenever you get to it :)


Jennifer Welsh Fran, I’m so sorry I’m only seeing your comment now! But I love your question, and at the time I finished reading this, I remember being aware of the daily refrigerator hum in my apartment, for example, and the evening hour that horns honk on the main strip. Right now I have almost daily construction outside my living-room window. The other day I was nailing chains to some of my art pieces and I was feeling like one of the team, lol. The sounds blended


message 29: by Julie (new)

Julie G Wow, Jennifer! What an amazing review. It was so powerful in its message, you inspired me to sit here and pay better attention to the sounds around me. Thank you.


Jennifer Welsh Thanks so much, Julie! I’m glad you happened upon this review, because I actually thought you might really like this work. The only thing holding me back from certainty is that the author is a little cold…


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